Ulosera Woyera kapena mwinamwake iwo amatchedwanso Khirisimasi, akhala akuwoneka kale kwambiri. Kulosera kwa Svyetchnye ku Russia kunapitilizidwa ndikupitirizabe kuchitidwa mpaka lero ndi iwo amene amalemekeza miyambo ya usiku wa Khirisimasi, kuyambira pa 6 mpaka 7 wa Januwale, ndipo usiku wa Epiphany. Zimanenedwa kuti malingaliro pa nthawiyi ndi otetezeka, sayenera "kuyankha" pambuyo pa imfa. Mwinamwake, ndiye chifukwa chake iwo adagwiritsidwa ntchito mwakhama zaka mazana apitayi.
Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti otchuka kwambiri analipo, alipo ndipo adzakhala, ndithudi, maulamiro opatulika pa betrothed. Pa nthawi yomweyi amafunidwa kwa atsikana osakwatira okha, koma kwa amayi onse.
Makhalidwe abwino
Ndalama zonse zowonongeka zimakakamizidwa kutsatira malamulo ena:
- Ngati mukuganiza kuti mukukhala, yesani kusunga miyendo yanu.
- Nzeru za Hymenal nthawi zonse zimachitidwa mwamtendere. Pambuyo pake, ndi mtundu wa sakramenti weniweni. N'zosatheka kuti aliyense alipo kuti apikisane, kuwala kumangokhala kokha kuchokera ku makandulo ndipo osakhalanso.
- Kukhala "kukhudzana", simungakhale chinthu chomangirizidwa, choletsedwa. Izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zonse zomwe zimatsekera kumayambiriro anu ndikukumaliza: mabatani, mphete, mphete, zibangili, malamba, ndi zina zotero.
- Ponena za malo omwe mukuganiza kuti ndibwino, ndiye kuti zonse sizingatheke. Iyenera kukhala ndi mphamvu zina zachilengedwe. Zingakhale manda, chipinda chosiyidwa kapena chipinda chopanda kanthu - chirichonse chomwe chiri pambali ya dziko limodzi ndi lina, weniweni ndi otherworldly.
- Chinthu china: Ngati muli ndi mtanda kapena medallion ndi chifaniziro cha nkhope yoyera, muyenera kuchotsa kwa kanthawi, pamene mukuganiza. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, m'pofunika kuchotsa zithunzi ku chipinda cholengeza.
Kulankhulana ndi Khirisimasi
Timakupatsani inu matchulidwe ovomerezeka komanso ovomerezeka a kuyankhula kwa Khirisimasi.
Agogo athu aakazi ndi amai, nthawi zambiri amagwiritsira ntchito luso lodziwika bwino pa sera .
Timafuna supuni ndi madzi. Iyenera kukhala yozizira, njira yabwino, ngati muibweretsa kuchokera pachitsime kapena ku kasupe. Kuonjezera apo, mumasowa kandulo: ngati mumakwatirana ndikuganiza - zoyera, zam'tsogolo - mpingo kapena wamba, koma osati zikondwerero. Phululani pansi, ndikuyika zidutswazo mu supuni yachitsulo, zisungunuke iwo ku sera yakuya. Tsopano funsani funso, yankho limene mukufuna kudziwa, ndi kutsanulira zomwe zili m'madzi.
Musasokoneze msuzi mukamaganizira za sera yakuda yomwe ikuwonetsera. Zonse zimadalira malingaliro anu: patapita kamphindi mudzazindikira kuti sera yosakanizidwayi ikuyimira. Ndinatsimikiza ndi zomwe mwawona? Kenaka onani m'munsimu momwe mungafotokozere chithunzichi:
- Munthu ndi chizindikiro cha kuti posachedwapa wina angasinthe moyo wanu.
Zosintha kapena zoipa zidzakhala kusintha izi - zimadalira inu. Ngati chizindikiro chotere chikugwera pamene mukuganiza pang'onoting'ono, zikutanthauza kuti munthu yemwe akuyenera kukhala naye adzawoneka posachedwa. - Tizilombo - timasonyeza matenda ndi kukhumudwa. Matendawa amanenedwa ndi akangaude, ntchentche ndi tizilombo tofanana. Butterfly imaneneratu maonekedwe a wokangana.
- Khola, mbewa ndi chizindikiro cha kusakhulupirika. Samalani, musamakhulupirire mawu, samalirani zochita.
Izi ndizojambula kawirikawiri, zina zonse zikhoza kufotokozedwa molingana ndi mabungwe omwe amadza nanu.
Ngati mukufuna kupereka ngongole kwa winawake, kenaka lembani pa pepala dzina la wosankhidwayo, funsani funso lakuti "Kodi lidzakhala ndi ine?" Ndipo liwotcherani tsambali pa kandulo. Phulusa, atasonkhana m'chikhatho, tsanulirani zenera. Ngati mphepo imamuwombera, simukuyenera kukhala ndi munthu uyu. Ngati mutakhala, ndiye munthu amene mumamudziwa - wanu wosakanizidwa.