M'chaka choyamba cha moyo mwanayo amakula mofulumira komanso pang'onopang'ono masewera osiyanasiyana. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, mwezi womwe mwana amakhala ndi mutu ndi kumwetulira. Pakutha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena isanu ndi iwiri ayenera kuphunzira kukhala yekha. Makolo ambiri amayembekezera nthawi yomwe mwana wokondedwayo atenga njira yoyamba. Makamaka amayi ndi abambo amalimbikitsidwa ndi nkhani za achibale ndi abwenzi kuti mwana wawo anapita koyamba pamene anali ndi miyezi isanu ndi iwiri kapena eyiti yokha. Kenaka makolo amayamba kuda nkhaŵa, poganiza kuti mwina karapuz yawo imatha kumbuyo. "Kodi mwanayo ayamba kuyenda liti pokhapokha?" - ili ndi funso limene limakondweretsa.
Mwana ayenera kuyamba liti kuyenda?
Kawirikawiri, ana amapanga kayendedwe kawo koyamba pa chaka. Komabe, mwana aliyense amakula m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Kudziwa luso la kuyenda kumadalira zinthu monga chikhalidwe. Ana omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chokhazikika safulumira kuyenda, monga okwanira kuti azungulira nyumba zikukwawa pazinayi zonse. Ana ena amakhala omasuka kukhala. Karapuzy yogwira ntchito kufunafuna mwamsanga dziko lozungulira, choncho funsani makolo awo mofulumira. Kawirikawiri pali vuto pamene mwana amayamba kuphunzira (ali ndi zaka 9-10), kenako akukwawa.
Pakuti nthawi yolondola kuyenda imakhudza kukula kwa minofu ya ana. Mwana amene amayi ake amawapanga maulendo ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri amayamba kuyenda kale. Mwa njira, anyamata ochepa amayamba kusuntha mofulumira kuposa anzawo omwe amakula.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, kugonana kwa zinyenyeswazi kumatengedwa. Makolo a ana aakazi amafunitsitsa kuti atsikana ayambe kuyenda bwanji. Kawirikawiri, malinga ndi chitukuko chawo, akazi aang'ono amakhala patsogolo pa anyamata. Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi miyezi 9 mpaka 10 akusuntha "paokha". Pankhani ya anyamata omwe ayamba kuyenda, nthawi zambiri zimachitika patapita miyezi 2-3 kuposa atsikana. Inde, zonsezi ndizochepa. Choncho musadandaule ngati mwana wanu anayamba kuyendayenda mwana wawo wamwamuna.
Kawirikawiri, ana aang'ono amaona kuti ndi zachilendo kuti ayambe kuyenda mu miyezi 9 mpaka 15. Gawo loyamba pambuyo pa chaka musapatse malo oti anene kuti mwanayo ayamba kuyenda mochedwa. Musakweze alamu, muthamangire kwa dokotala wa ana kapena wamagulu a mafupa, ngati pakapita miyezi 12 Karapuz ikhala ikukhutira ndi kukwawa. Chinthu china ndi chakuti mwanayo ayamba kuyenda mofulumira, mwachitsanzo, kwa miyezi 8. Mfundo yakuti mafupa a mwanayo sali amphamvu kwambiri, choncho zina zowonjezera zingapangitse kusokonezeka kwawo. Mwa njira, kawirikawiri kuyenda kwa ana akuyambirira kumalimbikitsidwa ndi amayi, kumangoyamba kumuika pamapazi.
Kodi mungathandize bwanji mwana kuyamba kuyenda?
Pofuna kuphunzitsa mwamsanga ziphuphu kuti ayende, nkofunika kuti tisapitirize, chifukwa kuyesetsa konse kungapangitse zotsatira zosiyana. Pankhaniyi, kusagwirizana ndikofunika kuti mwanayo asamachite mantha. Ngati akufuna kuyenda ndi inu ndi dzanja, mumuthandize mu izi.
Ikani zothandizira (mwachitsanzo, mipando) pafupi ndi chipinda chimene mwanayo angasunthire. Pang'onopang'ono kuwonjezera mtunda pakati pawo, kotero kuti wamng'onoyo agonjetse mantha. Karapuza akhoza kulimbikitsidwa, mwachitsanzo, pobalalitsa ana ake omwe amakonda kumawunikira kumene akuyenera kudzidzipatula kutali ndi chithandizo kuti awapeze. Gulani njinga ya olumala kapena kachipangizo kamakina pamsana, kugwiritsira kumene mwanayo angakankhire chidole ndikuyendayenda. Ndi bwino kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito oyendayenda, pamene amathandiza kuchedwa kuyenda.
Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kugula nsapato zapachiyambi kwa oyamba kumene kuyenda, zokhala ndi mankhwala a mafupa, okhawo okhazikika ndi chidendene. Zidzalola mwanayo kuti azikhala olimba mtima komanso osakhumudwa.
Ngati, ngakhale mutayesetsa, pakapita zaka chimodzi ndi theka, mwana wanu wokondedwa sakusangalatseni ndi kuponderezana, m'pofunikira kulankhulana ndi mbira kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake.