Ndi angati omwe ayenera kuwerenga pa intaneti nkhani zowopsya za amuna omwe amatsutsa akazi chifukwa chosakhulupirika chifukwa mwanayo samawoneka ngati bambo ake, kapena apongozi ake, chifukwa chofananacho akuwatsutsa mpongozi wake wa chiwembu kwa ana ake okondedwa. Koma zingakhale zotheka kupeŵa kusamvana kwakukulu komanso kusunga mtendere ndi mgwirizano m'mabanja otero, kugwa m'manja mwa abambo awa ndi agogo awo buku lofala pa zamoyo.
Kupanda chidziwitso sikubweretsa zochitika zofanana za banja, tiyeni tifotokoze mkhalidwewo. Kotero, chifukwa, nthawi zambiri, nthawi zambiri, ana amafanana ndi makolo awo, koma samalekanitsa milandu pamene mwana sakuwoneka ngati bambo ake kapena sakuwoneka ngati makolo ake konse?
Pano pali chitsanzo cha banja langa. Amayi anga moyo wanga wonse amakayikira kuti ndi mwana wa makolo ake. Zoonadi, kuwonjezera pa mtundu wa maso ndi tsitsi (kuchokera kwa mayi) komanso kutulutsa matenda ophatikizana (kuchokera kwa bambo), sakuwoneka kuti walandira chilichonse. Komanso, agogo anga (amayi a amayi) zaka zambiri zapitazo anawonjezera mafuta, akuti: "Iye samawoneka ngati ife, ngati kuti watengedwera m'chipatala."
Chabwino, sizinangowonongeka kokha chifukwa chofunikira kufotokozera nkhaniyi kwa owerenga, komanso chidwi chenicheni, ndiyesera kudziwa momwe mwanayo ayenera kukhalira, ngati ayi, chinachake chiyenera kukhala wina.
Choonadi Chokhudza Choloŵa Cha Zida
Choyamba, tiyeni tikumbukire maphunziro a sukulu mu biology, kumene tonse tinauzidwa dongosolo losavuta la cholowa. Chibadwa chimayambitsa kulandira makhalidwe ena. Zachibadwa zimakhala zazikulu (zamphamvu) ndi zochepa (zofooka). Munthu aliyense, kaya khati, galu, kavalo, tizilombo kapena munthu, timatengera ma jini awiri, omwe ndi a kholo lililonse. Zikuwoneka kuti majini a munthu uyu akhoza kukhala aakulu kwambiri, kapena osakanikirana, ndipo mwinamwake kokha. Zimakhala mtundu wa lottery. Pali, ndithudi, zozoloŵezi zina: majini akuluakulu amatchedwa, omwe nthawi zambiri amawonetseredwa mu phenotype (munthu aliyense payekha). Koma malamulo onse ali osiyana.
Mwa anthu, majini omwe amachititsa kuwala kwa maso, tsitsi ndi khungu, tsitsi lofewa, nkhope zazikulu zimaganiziridwa kuti ndizo majini akuluakulu. Choncho, kuti maso, kuwala ndi kolunjika tsitsi, khungu loyera, finesse, majini ndizokhazikika. Choncho chitsanzo:
- Makolo oda tsitsi lakuda, monga lamulo, ana omwewo amabadwa;
- mwana wamwamuna wa shaten ndi wokongola kwambiri amawoneka kuti "amayenera" kupita kwa abambo, koma amatha kulandira chikhalidwe cha amayi;
- koma kwa odwala blonde a majeremusi ambiri, mawonekedwe a anawo ndi ovuta kwambiri kulongosola, chifukwa angakhudzidwe ndi majini akuluakulu a agogo aakazi, komanso makolo akale akutali.
Ndimabwereza kuti ichi ndi chitsanzo, lamulo lomwe lingakhale losiyana. Mwachitsanzo, mayi yemwe ali ndi tsitsi la wavy, komanso bambo wochepetsetsa, onse angakhale ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya majini (omwe ali ndi vuto loposa ("curly") ndi jini imodzi ("yoongoka"). Chotsatira chake, mwana yemwe ali ndi tsitsi lolunjika adzabadwa, zomwe, ndithudi, zimadabwitsa, koma siziyenera kuchititsa kuti asamakhulupirire makolo ake.
Zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi cholowa cha makhalidwe
Tiyeni tione zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri pa intaneti ndi mauthenga a pseudoscientific otsutsa amene mwana woyamba ayenera kuoneka, komanso zotsatira za ana a magulu a amayi omwe kale ankagonana nawo.
Nthano 1 . Mwana woyamba amawoneka ngati bambo, ndipo wachiwiri amawoneka ngati mayi. Sichidziwikiratu, pamaziko omwe maumboni aumwini awa aonekera. Palibe deta ndi chiwerengero cha chiwerengero chomwe chili nacho.
Nthano 2 . Chiphunzitso cha telegoni - chomwe chimakhudzidwa ndi munthu woyamba pa ana onse a mkazi. Palinso lingaliro loti abwenzi onse ogonana amachoka kwa amayi omwe ali ndi chidziwitso cha ma jini, omwe kenaka amadziwonetsera kwa ana ake. Chiphunzitso ichi chinawonekera pachigawo choyamba cha zaka za m'ma 1900 potsatira zotsatira za zomwe zinachitikira kukwera kavalo ndi mbidzi, zomwe ngakhale Charles Darwin adanena: izi sizinapereke ana, koma zowonongeka, zomwe zimadutsa, zinabweretsa kubadwa kwa mbidzi. Komabe, zimadziwika kuti kumapeto kwa zaka zana ndi zana ndi khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo chochitika ichi chinachepera kawiri ndi asayansi, ndipo panalibenso ana amodzi omwe ali ndi zizindikiro za zebra. Mwina zotsatira zodabwitsa za zomwe Darwin anakumana nazo si zotsatira za zochitika za telegonics,
Komabe, nthawi zonse kubadwa kwa mwanayo kunkayenda limodzi ndi kutsutsana ndi zifukwa zowopsya za achibale zokhudza yemwe mwanayo ali. Ngati mwanayo ali ngati mayi ake, agogo ake aamuna ndi agogo aamuna pambali ya amayi anga akusangalala, ngati papa, achibale ake akudzikuza kuti: "Ndipo kenakake-mu mtundu wathu!" Zonsezi ndi zomveka, chifukwa aliyense akufuna kuona munthu wamng'onoyo kupitiriza kwake . Koma musakhumudwe ngati mwanayo sanabadwe monga inu. Anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndipo chikhalidwe chakhala chikuyendetsa mwanzeru, kupanga mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Pambuyo pake, muvomerezana, zingakhale zopweteka kukweza ndi kuphunzitsa buku lanu lenileni.