Chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu chikuwopa pamene iwo akuwona mwamuna mu bokosi mu loto. Maloto oterewa amachititsa maubwenzi osiyana ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Pofuna kuthetseratu kukayikira komwe kulipo, nkofunika kulongosola molondola chiwembu chomwe chimawonedwa, kuganizira zonse.
Kodi mwamuna amalota chiyani mu bokosi?
Maloto oterowo nthawi zambiri amadzidziwitsa okha zinthu zosasangalatsa komanso kuti posachedwapa padzakhala mavuto mu bizinesi, choncho ndi bwino kukana. Njira ina, yomwe imalota munthu wakufa mu bokosi - maganizo a wolotayo adzawonongeka posachedwa, choncho ndibwino kupempha thandizo kuti atseke anthu. Pali maloto oterowo komanso kutanthauzira kwabwino, kotero kwa achinyamata ndi osakwatira, ndizowona chikondi. Kwa maanja amene akhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, chiwembucho chimawonetsa ukwati wa pachiyambi. Kudziwona nokha mu bokosi kumatanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzakhala ndi matenda. Tidzapeza zomwe munthu wakufayo akulota mu bokosi, kuti bwenzi ndi chizindikiro choti akusowa thandizo pamoyo wake wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati mlendo akugona mu bokosi, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera mavuto anu. Maloto, omwe muli anthu ambiri mu bokosi, amalonjeza anthu atsopano. Ngati munthu wamoyo ali wakufa ndipo ali mu bokosi mu loto - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino, kutanthauza kuti munthu adzakhala moyo wautali. Maloto, omwe ndimayenera kukwera mu bokosi ndikugona mmenemo, amaimira kukhumba. Ngati bokosi limodzi ndi womwalirayo latsekedwa, ndiye wolota amayesa kuiwala chinachake mu moyo wamba.
Kodi bokosi limalota chiyani ndi munthu wamoyo?
Ngati mwamuna mu bokosi amayamba kukhala ndi moyo ndikuyamba kudzuka, ndiye kuti posachedwa wolotayo adzalandira mphamvu yatsopano, zomwe zidzathetseretu kusintha kwatsopano. Kuyankhula za mfundo yakuti maloto a munthu wathanzi mu bokosi, kapena mmalo-bwenzi-ndilo chidule cha nkhani, zomwe zidzakhudza moyo weniweni.