Mankhwala amatha kudzibisa nthawi zonse, zimakhala zovuta kuti asinthe makhalidwe ake ndikuzindikira zolinga zake. Koma apa ndi momwe munthu wokondwerera khansa amachitira zinthu, amatha kunena zina mwa makhalidwe ake.
Kodi okonda amachita ngati khansa bwanji?
Choncho, kuti muwerenge kuti Khansayo ndi wachikondi, zizindikiro zotsatirazi zidzakuthandizira:
- Amakhala wofatsa, wamanyazi komanso odabwitsa kwambiri. M'madera ambiri, khansa ikhoza kukhala. Mwamuna adzakuwonetsani kuti ndinu wodzichepetsa, wovuta komanso wamtendere kwambiri, koma zonsezi zikuwonetsa kuti sakukukhudzani.
- Nthawi zonse amayesa kukhala pafupi. Iye samayankhula za kumverera kwake kwa nthawi yaitali, koma amayesera nthawizonse kuthandiza, kuthandizira pa nthawi yovuta, amathandiza ndi malangizo ofunikira, ali okonzeka kukumana nanu tsiku ndi tsiku kuchokera kuntchito, kukuwonani kwanu. Zochita zake zonse zidzanena kuti simuli bwenzi lake basi, zimakhala zosavuta kuti munthu awonetse Raku kusiyana ndi kunena kuti ali pachikondi.
- Amakhala achisoni kwambiri. Amayi ambiri, osadziŵa momwe khansa yamakondwera imakhalira, nthawi zina zimamupangitsa kukhala wansanje, ndipo mopanda pake. Kumverera uku, iye samatha kulamulira, ngakhale kuyesa kuti adzisunge yekha. Zingathe kufika pamtundu wakuti mwamuna ayamba kutsatira theka lake, adzayang'ana foni. Iye sadzalekerera konse mpikisano pafupi naye, sadzabisa konse mkwiyo ndi chiwawa pa iye. Kwa ena, khalidweli la Khansara laamuna lidzakhala losamvetsetseka komanso lodabwitsa, koma amaona kuti ndilobwino.
- Maonekedwe akusintha. Mwamuna wokondana ndi khansa akhoza kuperekedwa ndi maso ake, "kuwononga" kwake kuyang'ana kumangothamangitsa misala. Iye akhoza kutalika kwambiri ndi kuyang'ana pa phunziro lake la kupembedza,
nthawi zonse kuyesera kuyang'ana m'maso, osaganiza kuti akhoza kunyalanyaza mkaziyo. M'madera ambiri, Khansa imakonda kuyang'ana kutali pamene ikuyankhula, ndipo mukumenyana kwakukulu, monga mu chikhalidwe cha chikondi, amayang'ana m'maso mwa munthuyo. - Iye amayesa kuti asadandaule. Mankhwala a khansa mwachikondi amakhala ngati mwana wamwamuna, amayesera kukhala pafupi, kuyesera kuteteza ku mavuto, ngakhale atadwala, mpaka atatha kubisa, kuti asadandaule ndi wokondedwa wake. Mankhwala a khansa nthawi zonse amapempha nthawi yake kuti adziwe bwanji momwe amamvera, koma sakudziwa mavuto ake, osati kuwakakamiza okondedwa ake kuti amudandaule.