Nthawi zina mumaloto munthu amawona nkhani zovuta kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina, zinthu zochepa kwambiri. N'zovuta kutanthauzira masomphenya pazochitika zilizonse, koma buku la loto lidzakuthandizira kuthetsa nkhaniyi ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe bedi likukhudza komanso kutenga nkhaniyi ngati chenjezo ponena za ngozi.
Kodi zofunda zoyera zimawoneka bwanji?
Masomphenya amenewa ndi chizindikiro chakuti chirichonse chiri choyenera mu banja kapena moyo waumwini pa moyo waumwini , izi ndi zabwino, monga zimalonjezera kuti kulibe mikangano ndi kukangana ndi wokondedwa. Koma kuti maloto okhudza kusintha bedi sangathe kutchedwa chizindikiro chabwino, chowonadi ndi chakuti kwa anthu omwe ali kale pachibwenzi kapena chikwati, chiwembuchi chimalankhula za chikhumbo chofuna kusintha wokondedwa kapena kusakhutira ndi moyo wapamtima. Kugula choyera cha chipale chofewa mu loto, mwa njira, komanso kukamba za izo. Ngati chiwembucho chimawonedwa ndi mtsikana wosakwatiwa, ndiye kuti angadalire kuti posachedwa ayamba kukondana, ndicho chovala choyera kapena maloto ake ogula.
Mwa njirayi, Freud adanena mosapita m'mbali kuti malonda omwe ali nawo mu maloto a chirichonse chomwe chikugwirizana ndi malingaliro a munthu wogonana, ndiko, pillowcases, mapepala ndi zikopa zapando, amalankhula za chikhumbo choyesera mu malo apamtima, kotero kuti ndi malingaliro atsopano otani okhudzana ndi malingaliro, ndi wotsimikizika.
Nchifukwa chiyani tili ndi mipando yakuda?
Koma masomphenya awa akuwonekera momveka bwino kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kuti mukukumana ndi mavuto. Zikuoneka kuti posachedwa, awiriwo ayamba kutsutsana ndi kutsutsana. Ngati chidachi chikadali chodetsedwa, ndiye kuti sikuyenera kuyembekezera kuyanjanitsa mofulumira, kuyanjana ndi kusamvetsetsana kumayambitsa mkangano wautali, ndipo mwina, kutha kwa chiyanjano.
Kwa anthu osakwatiwa, malotowa akulosera kuti posachedwapa sangathe kupeza awiri.