Pofuna kufotokoza maloto okhudzana ndi akufa, m'pofunika kuganizira zochitika zina. Ngakhale mfundo zing'onozing'ono kwambiri zingakhudze kwambiri mfundo yomaliza. Chofunika kwambiri ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitika m'moyo weniweni. Mukamasanthula bwinobwino malotowo ndikuganizira zonsezi, mukhoza kuyamba kutanthauzira.
Kodi anthu akufa amalota chiyani?
Kawirikawiri maloto omwe munthu wakufa walota amoyo ndizo kukumbukira komanso kusonyeza kuvutika. Ngati mutalankhula ndi munthu wakufa, buku lotolo limalimbikitsa kuti mumvetsere mawuwo, chifukwa akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino komanso abwino. Maloto, omwe munawona kuti anthu amadziwika kale, ndiwo chiwonongeko cha mwayi waukulu. Posachedwapa mudzayenda ndi chuma, koma mu malo amodzi, kumene kuli, kwa inu. Wotanthauzira maloto, kumene munthu wakufa amalota mu bokosi, amatanthauzira momwe zingakhalire ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana, omwe angawononge moyo. Posachedwapa m'pofunika kukhala osamala kwambiri komanso osamala kwambiri. Ngati mukuyesetsa kuyambitsanso munthu wakufayo - izi ndi chenjezo lomwe muyenera kuthana ndi mavuto akale. Ndikofunika kudzikweza nokha ndikukhazikitsa bwinobwino. Anthu osadziwika akufa ndi ovuta kulandira thandizo kuchokera kumalo osayembekezereka.
Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kudziwa chifukwa chake anthu akufa akuzunguliridwa kumbali zonse akulota. Pachifukwa ichi, buku lotolo likuti posachedwa udzathedwa ndi mavuto ambiri m'madera osiyanasiyana. M'modzi mwa mabuku a malotowo, pali mfundo zomwe maloto a anthu akufa amachititsa mavuto m'mabanja ndi m'mabanja.
Ngati munthu wakufa akulota munthu wamoyo mwachisangalalo chabwino - ichi ndi chizindikiro chokometsera, chomwe chimalongosola ubwino wake. Kuti mumuwone chisoni, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwapa mudzayembekezera mavuto ambiri. Ngati mutakhala patebulo ndi anthu akufa ndikuyesa kuzidyetsa - ichi ndi chizindikiro chokongola chomwe chimalonjeza kuti ndalama zimakhala bwino komanso chimwemwe m'banja. Wotanthauzira maloto, kumene munthu wakufa nthawi zambiri amalota moyo, amatanthauzira, ngati kukhalapo kwa moyo wake kudziona kuti ndi wolakwa pa zomwe anachita kale. Ngati muwona chithunzi ndi akufa - ichi ndi chizindikiro cholakalaka anthu awa. Masomphenya a usiku omwe wakufayo akutcha iwe ndi chizindikiro chosasangalatsa chomwe chimalonjeza matenda aakulu kapena imfa.