Kale, ng'anjo imaonedwa kuti munthu amadziwika bwino ndi banja lake, kutentha ndi chitonthozo, kotero kutanthauzira kwa malotowo kumatanthawuza makamaka nkhani za banja zokhudza anthu ochepa. Malingana ndi Freud, iye ndi chizindikiro chachikazi chachikazi, choncho ali ndi chidziwitso cha kugonana. Kodi stove imalota chiyani - m'nkhaniyi.
Kodi chophika m'nyumba chimalota chiyani?
M'mabuku osiyana a maloto maloto operekedwa amatanthauzidwa mosiyana. Nazi zolemba zambiri:
- Kuyang'ana pamoto ndi phokoso pamakomo ndi nthawi zonse kuti banja likhale losangalala . Kotero, iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi chomwe ng'anjo yamoto ikulota, ndiyenera kunena kuti kukhala bwino ndi kugonana bwino ndi mwamuna wake. Moto wofiira umalonjeza chikondi cha theka lachiwiri ndi ubale wamtima wokoma ndi abwenzi. Koma molingana ndi Freud, izi zimalonjezedwanso ndi buku lokonda kwambiri "moto", ngakhale kuti izi sizimagwira ntchito kwa wokonda: chiyanjano chatsopano chikhoza kubwera ndi yemwe kale anali naye.
- Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe mavuni ozizira a ku Russia amalota, mukhoza kuyankha kuti kuzizira mu chiyanjano ndi wokondedwa wanu, ndipo ngati wagwa, ndiye kuti akulekanitsa, ndipo nthawi zina amafa. Kwa otanthauzira ena, palinso tsatanetsatane wa izi, zokhudzana ndi mavuto, zophophonya, zokhumudwitsa zaching'ono ndi mavuto.
- Sungunulani mu ng'anjo yamoto - kusintha, mwinamwake kosangalatsa. Tsogolo likukonzekera kutembenuka kwatsopano, ndilo zomwe loto likuphimba likuyaka.
- Kudziwotcha ndi chophimba chofiira ndikumenyedwa ndi kutsutsidwa. Mwinamwake, mphutsi idzabwera kuchokera kwa iwo omwe sakuyembekezera.
- Chipinda chogwa chophikira malonjezano omwe sichinachitikepo konse. Kutaya kungakhale kwakukulu kwambiri, kotero kuti chofunika kwambiri ndichokwanira.
- Chowotchedwa chowotchera kuti muwone, kotero mutha kuyembekezera kusagwirizana pazochitika za m'banja, kusokonezeka ndi zokhumudwitsa pakati pa ana ndi mwamuna wake.
- Ngati wina ati apange chinachake, ili ndi mwayi.
- Wopanga mphika m'nyumba - ku nkhani zoipa, koma ngati ali kuntchito, tingathe kunena kuti posachedwa wina adzawoneka m'deralo yemwe angathandize kuyamba bizinesi yatsopano, ayamba. Komabe, pamafunika khama lalikulu kuti likhale lomaliza.
- Kutenthedwa pa ng'anjo ya kuphika ophimba akulephera. Maloto oterowo akhoza kutanthauzidwa ngati nsanje, kukangana pakati pa okwatirana chifukwa cha mpikisano wotulukira.
- Kukhala pansi ndi chitofu chowotcha, ndiye kwenikweni, kukonzekera ulendo. Pali msewu wautali, mwinanso ngakhale kusunthira, komwe kumalonjeza kupatukana ndi anthu apamtima ndi okondedwa.