Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndinu wangwiro ndipo simungakwiyitse munthu wanu? Pali njira yabwino yowunika izi ndikuwone ngati muli ndi zizoloŵezi zomwe zimayambitsa chisokonezo ndi kusagwirizana.
Mukufuna kuti muyang'ane nokha kuchokera kumbali ina ndikupeza zomwe zingakhumudwitse wokondedwa wanu khalidwe lanu? Akatswiri amapanga kafukufuku pakati pa amuna omwe anali ndi ubale wautali, akufunsa chomwe chinawakhumudwitsa kwambiri akazi. Izi ndi zomwe zinachitika.
1. Maholide opusa.
Atsikana ambiri ali otsimikiza kuti abwenzi awo ayenera kudziwa tsiku la zochitika zonse pamoyo wawo, ngakhale zomwe zilibe phindu, mwachitsanzo, tsiku limene munayamba kupita ku cinema kapena mukulandira. Kwa amuna, zimawoneka ngati zopanda pake, ndipo mkwiyo wokhala ndi nthawi ngati umenewo ukuchotsedwa kukumbukira kwake ndi wopusa.
2. Tiuzeni za kale.
Amayi ambiri amapeza chidwi chodabwitsa komanso chosamveka mu ubale wapamtima wa mnzawo. Nchifukwa chiyani mukumukumbutsa akazi akale, chifukwa muli pafupi? Ichi ndi chachilendo ndipo sichikhoza kukhumudwitsa.
3. Ndiuzeni, kodi ndi mafuta?
Vomerezani, kangati patsiku mumapempha funso ili kwa wosankhidwa wanu, amene watopa kale ndikubwera ndikuyamikila kuti musakangane. Azimayi nthawi zambiri amanyengerera kukula kwa masautso, kufuna kungomva mawu achikondi. Oimira aphungu amphamvu pa kugonana posankha njira yosiyana.
4. Dziwani chizoloŵezi.
Kwa mwamuna, chidwi cha mkazi ndi chofunika, koma chikamangidwa ndipo sichimasintha. Zikatero, zimakhala zovuta kupuma. Lekani kuyitana wokondedwa wanu theka la ola limodzi, kumudyetsa ndi supuni, yang'anani ngati iye wavala mwachikondi, khulupireni ine, chifukwa cha ichi ali ndi mayi.
5. Kupanda kukhulupirira.
James Bond akusuta fodya pambali, pamene mkazi wansanje amatha. Kuyang'ana mafoni ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kuyambitsa zokambirana, kusaganizira - ndipo izi ndizochepa zomwe amayi angathe. Zonsezi sizingowononga zokhumudwitsa, komanso zimapha chiyanjano.
6. Kuchitira nsanje chifukwa cha nsanje.
Inde, amuna ndi ogonjetsa, koma nthawi zonse amawakhumudwitsa, kukonda ena ndi njira yolakwika. Ndikhulupirire ine, mwamuna ndi mkazi omwe mumakhala ndi amuna ena, ndipo mzimayi wake akuwombera, amayang'ana zonse zachilendo komanso zachilendo.
7. Kodi mwamuna si telepathic?
Sizowonekera pamene amayi adaganiza kuti abambo, ayi, ayenera kulingalira maganizo awo. Oimira abambo amphamvu ali pafupi kumphulika pamene amva zinthu monga: "Ndipo iwe ukuganiza?", "Zinali zovuta kuganiza?". Sumafuna kukhumudwa, kuyankhula molunjika, ndipo osasewera masewera.
8. Kulikonse tsitsi ili.
Amuna ambiri amangodandaula kuti atopa atapeza tsitsi la amayi kulikonse: pansi, sofa, mu bafa ndi zina zotero. Ngati simukufuna kukhumudwitsa wosankhidwa wanu, ganizirani izi.
9. Kugwiritsira misozi.
Chotsimikizika kuti padzakhala misonzi mu njira yopambana-kupambana, khulupirirani ine, sikumathandizidwa. Ndipotu, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti amuna ambiri amachititsa kuti anthu azikhumudwa ndipo, m'malo mwake, amachititsa kuti azizunzidwa. Sikoyenera kulira chifukwa china chilichonse, chifukwa zimakhala zovuta kumvetsa chisoni anthu omwe akugonana nawo.
10. Chilungamo chonse.
Chinthu china chodziwikiratu kwa ambiri, pamene kulungamitsidwa kwa kulephera kwawo kumveka ngati: "Ndine mtsikana." Izi zingathe kugwira ntchito pamene mukufunika kumangirira msomali pamtambo, osati pamene mukufunika kukhala wamkulu komanso kukhala ndi udindo pazochita zanu.
11. Kutsutsa ena.
Ichi ndi chikhalidwe cha amayi ambiri, kukambirana ndi ena, makamaka oimira ena ogonana. Kuseka zolakwa za ena sizonyansa chabe, komanso zimatsimikizira kupusa komanso kudzidalira kwambiri. Amuna pafupi ndi miseche amawamva osasangalala, ndipo pamutu pawo amangomva mawu amodzi okha: "Tsekani pakamwa panu!".
12. Kodi mumandikonda?
Pano tiwerengere, kangati patsiku mumapempha wosankhidwa wanu, kodi amakukondani kapena ayi? Kwa munthu, mafunso amenewa amawoneka ngati kuzunzidwa, komwe kumayambitsa mkwiyo wokwiya. Amuna ambiri omwe amagonana molimba nthawi zambiri amakhulupirira kuti ngati adanena kale za momwe amamvera komanso ali pafupi, palibe chomwe chasintha, ndipo simukusowa kufunsa za chikondi.
13. Amaliseche ndi kugonana.
Kulakwitsa kwakukulu komwe kumangopangitsa anthu kuzunza ndikuwononga ubale. Ngati mkazi akukana kugonana, pofuna kulanga mnzawo, amamukankhira "kumanzere."
14. Iye ndi woipa kwambiri, ndichitireni chisoni.
Mukumenyana kapena kusalongosoka kulikonse kwa munthu, mumathamangira ku foni kuti mukadandaule za amayi anu kapena abwenzi anu. Ichi ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu, komwe kumakwiyitsa komanso kumatsika pansi pa bolodi. Zindikirani, mudzayanjanitsa ndi osankhidwa anu, ndipo amayi anga ndi abwenzi adzapitiriza kumuona ngati "mbuzi".
15. Ndichita zonse ndekha.
Amuna akufuna kumverera kuti ndi apamwamba komanso ofunika kuti agwirizane ndi "kugonana kolimba". Ndikhulupirire, iwo sangakonde ngati abwenzi awo athamanga mu babu, kukonza mpanda ndi zina zotero.
16. Tiyeni tikambirane za ukwatiwo.
Ubale unayamba posachedwa, ndipo kale anali kukamba za ukwatiwo, kumvetsa - nthawi zambiri zimabwerera. Ziri bwino kuti zikhalebe ngati momwemo, ndipo ngati munthu ali wotsimikiza, ndithudi adzauka pa bondo limodzi.