Tsiku lakubweranso ndi losangalatsa kwa achinyamata onse, chifukwa, malingaliro awo, zitseko zatsopano zomwe zimawonekera pamaso pawo. Achinyamata ambiri amafuna kutsegulira mwambo umenewu mosaiwalika, ndipo amayamba kukonzekera pasanathe milungu ingapo.
Kodi kupindula ndi munthu wamkulu?
Maganizo pa tsiku limene ambiri omwe anayambitsa phwando amabwera, makolo ake ndi malamulo ndi osiyana kwambiri.
Ndi achinyamata, nthawi yosangalatsayi imawoneka ngati kumasulidwa kuchokera kwa makolo ndi chisamaliro, ufulu waukulu komanso mwayi wopanga chisankho. Mwachizoloŵezi, m'mayiko olemera a Soviet, zaka zapasipoti sizingagwirizane ndi chiyambi cha ukalamba, kuyambira ali mwana, kulandira maphunziro, ndalama komanso nthawi zina makhalidwe kumadalira makolo ake.
Makolo sadziwa kuti akukula ndi ana komanso achinyamata, ana awo amakhalabe ana. Mwamwayi, makolo ambiri masiku ano akupitiriza kulera ana akuluakulu, kuchepetsa kukula kwawo kwenikweni.
Malinga ndi lamulo la mayiko ambiri padziko lapansi, ambiri amabwera ali ndi zaka 18. Chifukwa cha chiwerengero cha anthu ambiri timatanthawuza kuti tili ndi mphamvu zokwanira zalamulo komanso kuti titha kuwonetsa zotsatira za zochita zawo, komanso kukhala ndi udindo wawo. Anthu ambiri sagwirizana ndi zaka zakubadwa, komanso mwayi wogwiritsa ntchito ufulu wawo pazandale. Mu machitidwe osiyana a malamulo ndi m'mayiko, zaka zalamulo zaunyinji zimakhala ndi zoyenera.
Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji achikulire?
Achinyamata ambiri tsiku limene amadzala, amafuna kukumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali.
Kawirikawiri, achinyamata omwe amakula amakhala akumaitana anzawo ambiri. Iyenera kuchitidwa pasadakhale, kuti aliyense athe kusamalira mphatsoyo ndikudziyesa yekha. Makamaka osangalatsa adzakhala mabwenzi, ngati wokondwerera phwando akubwera kuitanidwe ndi malingaliro, kupanga mapepala oyambirira.
Tiyenera kulingalira pa pulogalamu yamadzulo ndikugula kapena kukonzekera zofunikira zonse za zosangalatsa. Mndandanda ndi mndandanda wa zakumwa ziyenera kulembedwa. Mu zakumwa mukhoza kumwa mowa, mwachitsanzo, vinyo.
Tavomereza kuyamika konse, pokhala ndi mpikisano ndi kudya chakudya chamadzulo, ndizotheka kupita ndi abwenzi ku gululo.