Musakhale ndi nthawi yochoka pa Tsiku la okondedwa onse, monga momwe February 23 adabwerera kale, komanso kukhumudwa kwa chidziwitso pa mutu wakuti "Kodi mungasankhe bwanji ndi mphatso yanji kwa wokondedwa wanu?". Komabe, musanasankhe kuti mphatso yomwe idzakhala yosangalatsa kwa wokondedwayo pa February 23, atsikana ambiri akukayikira ngati n'zotheka kupereka chinachake pa holideyi, ngati mwamunayo watha kupewa ntchito ya usilikali. Zikuwoneka kuti ndichifukwa chiyani mumayamikira okondeka anu pa February 23, ngati sakuyesa yunifolomu? Ndipotu, funso lopusa, mofanana ndi kukayikira "kodi amuna amakonda mphatso?". Pambuyo pa zonse, sizingatheke kuti makina omwe ali m'manja apange munthu wotero, avomereze? Ndicho chifukwa chake n'zotheka komanso koyenera kukondweretsa wokondedwa mphatso ya holide ndi kuyamikira pa February 23, ngakhale ngati sakudziwa kuvala "pamene masewera akutentha".
Koma ndi mphatso yanji yomwe mungasankhe ndi nkhani ina. Inde, ndikufuna kupewa zizindikiro za banal ndi razors, ndi kupanga wokondedwa kukhala chilengedwe, mwinamwake mphatso yapamtima, ndipo mwinamwake kupereka chinachake chomwe iye ankachifuna kuti apeze. Choncho, pamaso pa February 23, timaphatikizapo ubongo ndi malingaliro pa mphamvu zonse ndikukumbukira nkhani zomwe sizili zokwanira kuti tidzakhale osangalala. Ndipo kukumbukira, pafupi ndi zomwe posachedwapa zokambirana zikuyendayenda, timasankha mphatso yoyenera. Ngati pali zinthu zambiri zolakalaka, ndiye timaganizira khalidwe la wokondedwa. Mwachitsanzo, iye ankafuna chinthu china m'galimoto, koma sankakana zosangalatsa. Ngati mumakonda kwambiri chikondi, ndibwino kuti mum'patse chimwemwe chabwino, ndipo adzalandira chinthu chofunika, kwa amuna ogulitsira, nthawi yomwe amakhala ndi mkazi wokondedwa ndi yofunika kwambiri kuposa zofuna za thupi.
Nanga bwanji ngati wokondedwayo sakanamizira za chirichonse chonga icho? Inde, kuti ayesetse mwangozi kuti akambirane naye za zochita zodzikongoletsera kapena sabata yotsatira, mwadzidzidzi amatsutsa zomwe akufuna. Ndipo ngakhalenso ngati njirayi isalephereke, ndiye kuti mumayenera kutenga mphatso mwachinsinsi, mwachibadwa mumamvetsera zomwe amakonda komanso zosangalatsa.
Zosangalatsa
Amuna ambiri amachitira "mahatchi" awo ndichisomo chapadera, popanga mayina osiyanasiyana achikondi awo. Ndipo chifukwa mphatso ku galimoto ndithudi ikondweretse wokondedwa wanu. Chabwino, ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi zizoloŵezi zowonetsera bwino, nsomba, makompyuta, masewera, ndiye mphatso yochokera mndandandawu iyenera kuti ikhale yosangalatsa.
Makhalidwe
Inu monga momwe simukudziwira mtundu wa wokondedwa wanu, choncho chonde pempherani ndi mphatso sizikhala zovuta. Kodi amakonda chakudya chokoma? Ndiye chikondwerero chamadzulo ndi zokondedwa mbale zidzawatsimikizidwa ndi iwo. Ingokumbukirani kuti malingaliro owonetsera amawathandiza kukhala osangalala ndi chakudya. Choncho, m'pofunika kumvetsera mapangidwe a mbale, ndi chipinda chonse. Ndipo mwinamwake mwamuna wanu amakonda kukonda nthawi zojambula zojambulajambula, kapena nthawi iliyonse atapeza chinachake chatsopano m'mafilimu omwe mumawakonda, kapena palibe chokoma kuposa kumvetsera nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda?
Zosangalatsa
Wakhala mukulakalaka kuti mupite kumapeto kwa sabata limodzi, kupita kwinakwake kunja kwa tawuni, kapena amene mumakonda kwambiri ntchito za kunja? Ndiye, mukudziwa zomwe mungam'patse. Pali zambiri zomwe mungasankhe, kuchokera paulendo wopita kumalo othamanga kupita kumalo othamanga.
Mphatso ya kugonana kwa wokondedwa wanu
Iyi ndi njira ina yokondweretsa bambo wanu pa February 23rd. Monga akunena, chinthu chachikulu mu mphatso sizomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito, koma samalirani. Kotero lolani mwamuna wanu lero azisambira mu caress. Chigawo choyamba cha mphatso kwa okondedwa anu chiyenera kukhala maonekedwe anu, mwachitsanzo, chovala chovala chovala chamasewero kapena nesi amatsuka. Ndipo kuchokera kumbali yina yomwe idzaphatikizapo masewera anu okondwerera, ndi zophweka kuganiza.