Kugonana

Kugonana ndiko, poyamba, kumverera. Maubwenzi ogonana amatha kulephera ngati sakuwathandizidwa ndi chikondi. Monga mukudziwira, kuti wina aliyense mu chibwenzi akhoza kupeza zatsopano kwa tsiku ndi tsiku, m'pofunika kusintha.

Koma mutu wakuti "kugonana" ndizovuta kwambiri. Ena amatsatira moyo wa "bwenzi limodzi usiku umodzi," ndipo alipo omwe ali okhulupirika kwa mmodzi yekhayo mu umoyo ndi umphawi.

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Kugwirizana kwa kugonana kumadalira kugwirizanitsa kugonana. Ndipo izi zimachitika pokhapokha ngati onse awiri amakumana ndi zilakolako zawo zakugonana komanso zosowa zawo.

Munthu aliyense ali ndi lingaliro lake lachiwerewere komanso zachiwerewere. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mu kugonana pogonana kumeneku kumatchedwa "Kugonana kwabwino". Kwa munthu aliyense, iye ndi wake. Ndipo pali kusiyana kwakukulu kumvetsetsa pakati pa abambo ndi amai.

Munthu aliyense ali ndi zinthu zingapo zosangalatsa. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, ali achinyamata komanso anyamata iwo ali ochuluka kwambiri. Koma, pamene ubwenzi ukhale wokhazikika, ndiye kuti ndalamazo zachepa kwambiri.

Kugonana pakati pa abambo ndi amai kumakumana ndi mavuto osati pamene kugonana kumasanduka galasi la "Monotony", koma ngati munthu salola kuti zilakolako zake zikhale kunja pamene sangathe kumasuka komanso kukhala mfulu mu ubale wapamtima.

Kugonana koyambirira

Kugonana ali wamng'ono kumakhudza thupi lomwe lisanalimbikitsidwe. Ndipotu, zonse zomwe munthu amachita mofulumira, komanso osaganizira bwino, zimatha kumuvulaza. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, kugonana kwa achinyamata kungayambitse kusabereka, kusokonezeka kwa kugonana, kusokonezeka maganizo.

Moyo wamagonana oyambirira umapweteka maganizo a munthu, omwe amadzimva atatha munthu atadzimangiriza yekha ndi mfundo zaukwati. Komanso, kugonana kwa anyamata kumabweretsa chidwi kwa wokondedwa wake. Pali chilakolako choyesera zomwe mungachite ndi anzanu ena.

Zotsatira zake, mavuto mu kugonana mu msinkhu wokalamba angakhalepo chifukwa chakuti munthu m'mayambiriro sadakhazikitse kwathunthu lingaliro la chikondi, malingaliro. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kulipira mgwirizano wathanzi ndi kugonana.

Kugonana m'banja

Amuna ena kwa amayi awo okondedwa amatha kusunga chidwi kwa zaka zambiri akukhala pamodzi, pamene gulu lina lachiwerewere champhamvu likuyang'ana kugonana kwatsopano m'mikono ya mkazi wina pambuyo pa zaka zingapo za banja.

Kugonana muukwati kumatha kugwirizana, pamene onse awiri amadziwa zomwe zimakhudza chikhumbo chawo chogonana. Kotero, kukopa kwa amuna kwa mkazi kumakhudzidwa ndi:

1. Kukhala ndi thanzi la anthu . Kuledzeretsa kwa mowa, kudya kwambiri, kusowa zolinga ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwawo - zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti pakhale zaka 45, mwamunayo ataya kugonana ndi mkazi.
2. Ntchito yochuluka. Pamene mkazi watopa tsiku lirilonse kuchokera kuntchito, ndiye kuti alibe ntchito yokhudzana ndi kugonana sipangakhale funso.
3. Kupanda malo okhalamo. Anthu ambiri okhwima, monga mpweya, amafunika kukhala ndi ngodya yawo, chipinda chawo kapena nyumba.
4. Kudzudzula . Kugonana kwa okwatirana kuli ndi zochepa za mawu okhudzana ndi malo apamtima, omwe asanalankhule kapena atagonana. Amuna ali okhudzidwa ndi kutsutsidwa, ngakhale amatha kunena kuti zomwe akunena zokhudza mkazi wake zokhudza kugonana, samusamala.

Kugonana ndi luso. Aliyense ndi wojambula wa moyo wake komanso kuchokera ku ubale wake kwa iye mwini , kumverera kwa wokondedwa wake, kugwirizana kwa moyo wake wapamtima kumadalira.