Anthu omwe amadziwika bwino nthawi zambiri amakhala okonda maloto, omwe angathe kuweruza zam'tsogolo. Kuti chidziŵitso chikhale cholondola momwe zingathere, m'pofunika kuwonjezera chithunzi chokwanira ndikuganizira zonse.
Kodi munthu wamba amalota chiyani?
Msonkhano woterewu mumaloto umasonyeza tsogolo ndipo ngati izi zimabweretsa mavuto, ndiye kuti zochitikazo zidzakhala bwino. Ngati msonkhano ndi mnzako unathera ponyoza, ndiye kuti moyo weniweni wina ayenera kuyembekezera mikangano, mwachitsanzo, m'banja, kuntchito komanso m'madera ena. Kwa atsikana osakwatira, maloto okhudzana ndi kukomana ndi chibwenzi akupha, chifukwa zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa munthu woyenera adzawonekera pamoyo ndi yemwe adzatha kumanga ubale wamphamvu. Kugonana ndi mnzanu mu loto kumatanthawuza kukhalapo koopsa koyenderana ndi ndalama.
Tidzapeza chomwe chiri maloto oti kufunafuna bwenzi pakati pa anthu ndi chenjezo kuti zinthu zidzachitika pamene wina atetezera maganizo ake. Ngati kufufuza sikupambana, ndiye wolota akhoza kuchititsidwa manyazi. Pambuyo kuwuka sikutheka kukumbukira kuti ndi ndani yemwe ali mu maloto - zikutanthauza kuti m'moyo weniweni padzakhala munthu yemwe akhala akulakalaka kuiwala. Msonkhano wotero ukhoza kuwononga moyo.
Nchifukwa chiyani mnzanga wakale akulota?
Msonkhano wosayembekezeka ndi munthu yemwe simunawonepo kwa nthawi yayitali, mu loto, umatipatsa chidwi chodabwitsa. Ngati mnzanu akukhumudwitsa, ndiye kuti kudabwa kudzasiya kusasangalatsa. Tidzazindikira kuti abwenzi akale akulota, kapena kuti kukambirana kokondweretsa nawo ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chosonyeza mwayi wopita kuntchito. M'modzi mwa mabuku a maloto, maloto okhudza anzanu akale amamasuliridwa ngati chenjezo kuti posachedwa zinsinsi zitha kukhala katundu wa anthu ena, zomwe zingasokoneze mbiri.