Akazi ambiri pambuyo pa zaka makumi atatu mphambu zisanu kapena makumi anai, ngakhale ngakhale kale, ayambe kuda nkhawa ndi funso la momwe angayang'anire achinyamata. Izi ndi zomveka, chifukwa mkazi aliyense amafuna kuoneka ngati wangwiro, wokongola, wokongola, koma msinkhu kumapeto nthawi zonse umatengera zotsatira zake. Kotero tiyeni tiyese kupeza momwe tingawonekere aang'ono kuposa msinkhu wanu. Pa nthawi yomweyi, musaiwale kuti chinthu chachikulu sichichita mantha ndi msinkhu wanu komanso nthawi zonse kudzikonda nokha, ndiye anthu ena adzakukondani.
Kodi mungadule bwanji tsitsi lanu kuti muwoneke wamng'ono?
Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuyamba ndi tsitsi. Kawirikawiri, pamene mkazi akufuna kusintha chinachake pamoyo wake, amasintha tsitsi lake, lomwe limakhala chizindikiro cha kukonzanso kwathunthu.
Samalani mtundu wa tsitsi lanu. Mdima wamdima wambiri ndikugogomezera zofooka zonse za nkhope, choncho sankhani mtundu umodzi kapena awiri wowala kuposa umene mumakonda.
Sankhani tsitsi kuti liwoneke laling'ono, osati lovuta kwambiri. Kusiyana kwabwino kwambiri ndi tsitsi laling'ono, monga kusiyana kwake kulikonse, kumapangitsa kuti kamvekako, ndikukupatsani mphepo yachiwiri kuti mukasangalale ndi moyo kachiwiri. Koma ngati simunakonzekere kugawanika ndi tsitsi lalitali, mvetserani kuzing'onong'ono - zidzabisa mphuno ndi makwinya omwe amachokera mmenemo, komanso kubwezeretsanso nkhope.
Kodi kujambula kuti muwoneke wamng'ono?
Kawirikawiri, kudzipangira ndi chida chofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi pa msinkhu uliwonse, makamaka makamaka mutakhala zaka zoposa makumi atatu. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ziyenera kukhala zolondola ndikutsindika ulemu wanu, osati zolakwa.
Maonekedwe oti aziwoneka aang'ono - ndizosavuta. Yesetsani kupewa mdima wandiweyani komanso wowala kwambiri, wokhala ndi milomo komanso mithunzi. Sankhani maonekedwe owala m'mapangidwe omwe adzatsitsimutsanso nkhope yanu ndikuwutsitsimutsanso. Pakuti maso ndi abwino kwa mapensulo, kapena ofatsa, mwachitsanzo, pichesi mithunzi. Ndipo kwa milomo, njira yoyenera ikuwonekera kapena kumveka pamphuno ndi pinki. Ndibwino kuti musagwiritse ntchito ufawu, chifukwa uli ndi udindo wotsindika
Kodi kuvala kuti muwoneke wamng'ono?
Popeza pali zojambula zambiri, ndipo mkazi aliyense amakonda zambiri, timapereka malangizo okhawo. Choyamba, lemekeza msinkhu wanu ndipo musayesetse kuvala ngati wachinyamatayo, chifukwa zimawoneka ngati zopusa, koma osati zapamwamba. Kulimbiranso bwino kuletsa kukongola, chisomo, chikazi. Njira yoyenera ndi kachitidwe kakang'ono ka zovala zomwe sizikuwonjezera kwa inu zaka, koma, mosiyana, zidzatsindika kukongola kwanu ndi kudzidalira kwanu.