Pofuna kudziwa momwe tingasinthire fano la mkazi, komwe tingayambire ndi chifukwa chake chikhumbo chimawuka, tiyeni tiyambe kuganizira mozama za lingaliro ili, tanthauzo lake ndi mawu. Ndipotu, liwu lokha liri ndi tanthauzo losiyanasiyana, izi zimaphatikizapo kalembedwe ka kavalidwe , maonekedwe, mkatikati mwa "I" wanu, maubwenzi ndi anthu oyandikana nawo komanso okondedwa, zopindula za ntchito. Ndipo zigawo zonse izi zimagwirizana kwambiri, ndipo onse pamodzi amapanga fano limodzi, lotchedwa fano.
Pazifukwa zomwe panthawi ina pali chilakolako chosasinthika chosinthira chinachake, ndiye kuti zosankha zingakhale zazikulu. Kuchokera pa kukwezedwa kwa banal kuntchito yapamwamba ndi kufunikira kukwaniritsa udindo watsopano ku mavuto aakulu omwe amakhala osakhutira ndi moyo wawo.
Chilichonse chomwe chinali, ngati mwasankha kusintha chithunzichi, musaiwale "kuyika sitima ku mphepo ya kusintha".
Ndikufuna kusintha chithunzi: momwe mungachitire kwa mtsikana komanso kumene mungayambe?
Chikhalidwe chokhazikika kuti funso la momwe mungasinthire fanoli limayikidwa ndi atsikana aang'ono omwe akudzifufuza okha, ntchito yabwino, theka lachiwiri kapena akufunitsitsa kudzikuza ndi kusintha. Chabwino pa njira yopita ku cholinga, n'zosavuta kuyamba ndi maonekedwe. Malingaliro angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kupanga izi mofulumira komanso zopweteka:
- Tiyeni tiyambe ndi thupi - lamulo la golidi "mu thupi labwino - malingaliro abwino", kuchita maseĊµera sikungokonzeratu chiwerengero chanu, komanso maganizo anu.
- Chotsatira, tiyeni tipite kwa wovala tsitsi, apa chinthu chachikulu ndi kusaiwala za umunthu wanu. Kotero kuti sizinapangitse kuti tsitsi lanu latsopano silikuchokerani ndi funso lanu, ndi bwino kutembenukira ku katswiri yemwe adzasankhe tsitsi ndi tsitsi la tsitsi limene makamaka limatsindika ulemu.
- Sizodabwitsa kuyendera wokongola, khungu labwino komanso khungu loyera - chikole cha kukongola ndi mawonekedwe osamveka.
- Mfundo yakuti kusintha kumatha kusintha mkazi yemwe sadziwika ndi wina aliyense - choncho bwanji osayesa kufotokozera nkhaniyi ndi mitundu yatsopano ndi malingaliro.
- Tsopano chofunika kwambiri - zovala, mafashoni, osankhidwa bwino, zovala zimatha kuchita zodabwitsa. Choyamba, kusankha zovala zatsopano, zongolengedwa osati fano chabe, koma ndi thupi.
Pali malingaliro ambiri pankhaniyi, ndipo zidzakhala zoyenera kufufuza thandizo kuchokera kwa katswiri yemwe angakuthandizeni kupanga chifaniziro chatsopano ndi zofunikira zonse (nsapato, matumba, zovala, zodzikongoletsera, komanso zonunkhira).
Kusintha fano lanu, musaiwale za chinthu chofunika kwambiri - dziko lamkati. Makhalidwe, khalidwe, kudziona nokha ndi zina ena zonse pamodzi ndi mawonekedwe akunja adzatsimikizira moyenera kudzidalira ndikupanga kusintha kwa moyo wanu.