Kukwanitsa kukhazikitsa zolinga kumatsimikizira kupambana pokwaniritsa izo. N'zosatheka kuyendetsa sitima popanda kudziwa komwe angapitirire maphunzirowo.
M'dziko lathu, anthu adagawidwa m'magulu awiri: omwe "amapita ndi kutuluka" ndi iwo omwe amadziwongolera kuti azitha kuchita zotani. Gulu lachiwiri la anthu likufunsa momwe mungadziwire luso lokhazikitsa ndi kukwaniritsa cholinga. Izi ndi zomwe zidzakambidwe lero.
Nchifukwa chiyani tifunika kukhazikitsa zolinga?
Ndizomvetsa chisoni kukhala moyo wakuda ndi wosangalatsa, wopanda mitundu yowala komanso maganizo. Kunyumba, ntchito yapakhomo, kodi ndi zomwe tinalota ngati mwana? Monga ana, tinalota zabwino, zazikulu, komanso zosadzichepetsa. Ndili ndi zaka, tinayamba kugwirizana ndi zomwe tapatsidwa. Tiyenera kuyesetsa kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, kugwiritsa ntchito mipata yatsopano ndikukhala ndi mwayi watsopano. Phunzirani kulota, kumbukirani momwe zinakhalira bwino muunyamata. Aliyense akufuna kusintha moyo wake, koma ochepa ndi okonzeka kuchita chinachake pa izi. Zokhumba zathu zikhale zolinga.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kukonza zolinga molondola?
Choyamba, ndikofunika kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire malingaliro anu. Munthu ayenera kudziwa zomwe akufuna. Ntchito yofunika kwambiri imasewera ndikumvetsetsa kuti izi zikutheka, ndizofunikira kupanga khama. Cholinga chimodzi "chachikulu" chiyenera kugawikidwa "ang'ono". Mukamachita zonsezi mobwerezabwereza, mutha kuyandikira. Palibe chifukwa choyenera kuopa zovuta. Nthawi zambiri silinganenedweratu, choncho chinthu chachikulu sikuti tisiyire, koma kuti tisunthire mwadala.
Momwe mungakhazikitsire zolinga ndi zolinga?
Pamene choyamba chidzapulumutsidwa, nkofunikira kufotokoza ntchitozo. Konzani zomwe ndi nthawi yanji yomwe muyenera kuchita. Lembani zonse m'buku limodzi. Gwiritsani ntchito ndondomeko yanu ndipo musasinthe nokha. Kuti mugwire ntchito yowonjezereka, mukhoza kupanga bwalo lowonetsera zolakalaka . Pangani collage chithunzi ndi zithunzi, mwachitsanzo, nyumba imene mukufuna kukhala, magalimoto, dachas, yachts, ndi zina. Tsiku lirilonse, yang'anani kupyolera mu chilengedwe chanu, mupereke izo mphindi zisanu ndi ziwiri.
Kodi muli ndi zolinga zotani?
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, zolingazi ziyenera kuchitika. Izi zikutanthawuza kufunika ndi udindo muzochita, zomwe zidzatsogolera zotsatira. Musaiwale kudzilimbikitsanso nthawi iliyonse yomwe mwakwanitsa. Ngakhale kupambana kochepa sikuyenera kusamalidwa. Zolimbikitsa zowonjezera zidzakulimbikitsani kuti mupitirize kugwira ntchito.
Ngati mukufunadi, ndiye kuti zonse zidzatha. Kumbukirani izi ndipo khulupirirani nokha.