Okhulupilira ambiri akufunafuna kudziwa momwe angapezere kuti woyera wanga ndi ndani, kuti ndiyambe kutembenukira kwa iye kuti athandizidwe ndikuyamika m'mapemphero. Othandizira akulu omwe munthu aliyense ali nawo ndi angelo oteteza pamodzi ndi anthu kuchokera kubadwa mpaka imfa. Kuti muthandizidwe ndi loya, muyenera kungoonana naye. Mungathe kuchita izi m'mawu osavuta kapena kuwerenga pemphero loperekedwa kwa mngelo.
Kodi mumadziwa bwanji woyera wanu?
Munthu akhoza kukhala ndi othandizira angapo kwa omwe angapemphe thandizo. Njira yosavuta kuti mudziwe yemwe woyera wanu wachikondi ndikumudziwitsa dzina lake lomwe anabatizidwa nawo. Mwachitsanzo, Catherine adzathandizidwa ndi Catherine wa ku Alexandria. Pa tsiku la woyera wake, ndi mwambo wokondwerera tsiku la mngelo. Ngati munthu ali ndi dzina lomwe silingagwirizane ndi oyera mtima a Orthodox, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti musankhe maina ambiri a consonant, mwachitsanzo, Olesya angaganizire za Alexander Alexander.
Kuyankhula za momwe mungadziwire yemwe woyera wanu wachikondi ali, ndiyenera kunena za njira ina yomwe mpingo umavomerezanso. Ndikofunikira kuwerenga nkhani za miyoyo ya oyera omwe kukumbukira kukukondwerera pafupi ndi tsiku lanu lobadwa. Mbuye wake ndi kusankha woyera yemwe moyo wake umakhudzidwa kwambiri.
Njira ina ndi kusankha woyera wodzipereka amene amathandiza pazosiyana. Mu mpingo uliwonse, mukhoza kupeza mndandanda wa oyera omwe amathandiza kumadera osiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, atsikana omwe akufuna kukhala ndi mwana ayenera kupempha thandizo kwa Xenia wa Petersburg kapena Matryona Moskovskaya. Ngati pali cholinga - kupititsa patsogolo ndondomeko ya ntchito, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa woyang'anira dera linalake. Mwachitsanzo, anthu omwe ntchito yawo ikugwirizana ndi kulemba ayenera kutchula John Chrysostom.