Chikondi sichimagwirizana nthawi zonse, ndipo chikondi chosaganiziridwa nthawi zonse chimayesa mphamvu ya chikondi cha munthu amene akumva zowawa zake. Ngati chikondi chanu chiri chowonadi, mudzatha kukonda patali ndi kukondwera chifukwa cha chimwemwe cha chikondi chanu, ngakhale kuti sichikugwirizana ndi inu. Chikondi chosagwirizanitsidwa ndi mtanda umene waperekedwa kwa iwo omwe angathe kupirira.
Ngati kuli kovuta kuti mukhale ndi maganizo ovuta kwambiri, werengani mau a pemphero kuchokera pa chikondi chosadziwika. Choyamba, muyenera kupempherera munthu amene mumamukonda:
"Ambuye, thandizani mtumiki wanu (dzina)"
"Ambuye, limbitsani ndikutonthoza wantchito wanu (dzina)"
"Ambuye, sungani, sungani ndi kusonyeza chifundo pa mtumiki Wanu (dzina)."
Kapena kotero:
"Ambuye, ndikubwera kwa Inu ndi pempho la bwenzi langa. Mukudziwa mavuto ake, zomwe akusowa (mungathe kudziwa mwatsatanetsatane ngati mukudziwa zosowa), mumuthandize pazinthu izi, ndikukhulupirira kuti mungathe kuchita zonse, pakuti palibe chomwe chiri chosatheka, muthandizeni, ndikupemphani inu ameni "
Chizindikiro cha chikondi chenicheni ndi kudzipereka. Musamupemphe Mulungu kuti amuthandize mwachikondi, mumupemphe chimwemwe kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Ponena za chikondi chimodzi
M'mawu a mapemphelo othandizana chikondi, wina sangapemphe chikondi cha munthu wotanganidwa. Ngati nkhani yanu
Mapemphero omwe amathandiza mu zovuta za chikondi amawerengedwa pamaso pa mafano a Faith, Hope ndi Hope:
"Pamaso Panu, Amayi, Amayi a Mulungu, ndimapembedza, ndipo musanayambe kutsegulira mtima wanga. Inu mukudziwa, Mayi wa Mulungu, zonse zomwe ine ndikufuna kuti ndizipemphe, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), pakuti mtima wanga uli waufulu, wopanda kanthu, sangakhale wopanda chikondi choyaka. Ndikupemphera ndikupempha, ndipatseni ambulansi kwa munthu yekhayo amene angathe kuunika moyo wanga ndi kuwala ndikutsegulira mtima wanga kuti akakomane nane chifukwa cha kugwirizana kwathunthu ndi chisangalalo cha zolinga zathu ndikupeza moyo umodzi pawiri. Amen. "