Mukamabzala mwana wamphongo, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa udindo wake wonse wa moyo, thanzi labwino ndi zamoyo. Monga zamoyo zonse, amphaka amakhala ndi chibadwa cha kubala chomwe "amadzuka" atatha msinkhu. Khalani okonzeka kuwonetseredwa kwake, muyenera kudziwa pasadakhale kuti amphaka "akuyenda" zaka zingati.
Kuyamba msinkhu wa msinkhu
Funso lofunika - kodi amphaka amayamba ndi "kuyenda" pa msinkhu uti? Choncho, kufunsa paka paka kumayamba ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zitatu ndi zisanu ndi zitatu, makamaka makamaka kusonyeza kukonzekera kwake kuyambira nthawi ya February mpaka April. Kutha kwa kugonana kudzawonetsedwa pafupi pakati pa nthawi yophukira. Kenaka ikutsatira nthawi yotsala, yomwe imatha kuchokera pa masabata awiri mpaka miyezi iwiri, malingana ndi zikhalidwe za ndende.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ndi nthawi yanji yaukali ya paka, yomwe "amayenda" kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndi bwino kuimitsa kuchotsa mating ndi kubereka ana. Monga msungwana wamng'ono kwambiri, khateyo silingakonzedwe kwathunthu ndi zovuta za thupi.
Choyamba, pokhala ndi msinkhu ali ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri, mphakawo ukhoza kuvutika chifukwa cha msinkhu wake. Chachiwiri, ziwalo zake zakunja sizikonzekera kukwatira ndi kubereka kakati.
Kwa ubale wachikondi ndi umayi, kitty idzakhala yokonzeka pamene idzatembenuka chaka chimodzi ndi miyezi itatu. Mpaka nthawi ino, muyenera kuiteteza ku zisokonezo za amphaka. Ndipo kuti amuthandize pang'ono panthawi yomwe amasangalala komanso amamukonda, mungamupatse mankhwala otonthoza komanso odana ndi madontho a mapiritsi omwe amachokera ku zitsamba zakutchire.
Kodi mungamvetse bwanji kuti katsamba "kakucha"?
Zisonyezo za kuti katsamba watha msinkhu ndipo anayamba kuyenda ", zotsatirazi zikusintha mu khalidwe lake ndi thupi lake:
- iye akuyamba kufuula mokweza ndi mosadziletsa;
- pali kuwonjezeka kwamwano kapena, mosiyana, chikondi, chosagwirizana ndi mphaka kale;
- mphaka imasungunula pansi, makina ndi miyendo ikuluikulu , mosasamala nthawi ya tsiku;
- chiwalo chogonana chikhoza kukula pang'ono, kukula;
- pali gawo lopanda malire, chifukwa cha zomwe katsamba kawirikawiri komanso nthawi yayitali zimayika pamalo okondana.