Monga momwe zilili m'moyo weniweni, mphete ya siliva yomwe ikupezeka m'maloto ikhoza kukhala ndi matanthawuzo angapo, kotero ndikofunika kulingalira zina za chiwembucho pamene mutanthauzira. Yesetsani kukumbukira momwe kukongoletsa kumawonekera, zomwe munachita nazo, ndi zina zotero. Kuwonjezera apo, m'pofunika kufotokoza kufanana pakati pa zochitika zomwe zimachitika ndi zowonongedwa.
Bwanji mukulota mphete ya siliva?
Kawirikawiri zokongoletsera izi mu maloto zimakhudzana ndi kukhulupirika ndi kuwona mtima. Kwa anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi, malotowa amachititsa kuti munthu akhale wokhulupirika. Ngati muwona mphete yonyansa ya siliva m'maloto, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kukhala maso, chifukwa adani akungoyendayenda ndikukonzekera misampha kwa inu. Kulandira chokongoletsera ngati mphatso kuchokera kwa munthu ndi chizindikiro cha kulandira chiyamiko kuchokera kwa munthu wotchuka. Ngati mpheteyo idawonetsedwa ndi mkazi, ndiye dikirani zovuta za banja. Mzere wa siliva pa chala chake unabwera - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chimalonjeza kukwaniritsidwa kwa chilakolako chokondedwa, maloto okondana, komanso bizinesi yatsopano. Ngati chokongoletsera chinali m'manja mwa munthu wina, ndiye kuti, ndithudi, mutaya mwayi wapamwamba wopanga moyo wanu. Zolakwa zonse zidzakhala zowononga kwambiri.
Pezani mphete ya siliva mu loto ndizochitika zamtundu wina watsopano. Posakhalitsa, posachedwa, anthu adzawonekera ndi omwe mudzakhale anzanu, kapena mudzapeza chikondi chatsopano. Pofuna kulota mphete ya siliva, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuwerengera ngati banja lolimba ndi lolemera. Masomphenya ausiku, omwe ali ndi zokongoletsera zambiri, amasonyeza kuti pambali yoyandikana pali anthu omwe angathe kuwerengedwa mu nthawi yovuta. Ngati munalota mphete yasiliva yakuda, ndiye kuti mumoyo pali adani omwe pa nthawi iliyonse yabwino angathe kuvulaza kwambiri. Maloto a mphete yasiliva yokhala ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali ndi chizindikiro cha moyo wabwino ndi ubwino.