Mpaka pano, pali mabuku ambiri otota omwe amatha kulongosola pafupifupi maloto alionse. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kukumbukira mfundo zofunikira, mwachitsanzo, kutanthauzira maloto pa thumba lazimayi, yesetsani kukumbukira momwe zinkawonekera, zomwe munachita nazo, ndi zina zotero.
Kodi thumba lazimayi limalota chiyani?
Kwenikweni thumba likuyimira zochitika ndi chidziwitso chomwe chinasonkhanitsidwa pa moyo. Pofuna kugonana bwino, malotowo angatengedwe ngati chenjezo kuti chinsinsi chitha kudziwika bwino, choncho posachedwa ndiyenera kubisala. Ngati wolota atayika, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa padzakhala kusintha kwina m'moyo. Kuwonjezera apo, posachedwa m'tsogolo muli chiopsezo chotayika. Ngati zinachitika kuti mwangozi mumachoka thumba, ndiye kuti posachedwa padzakhala mavuto aakulu, omwe sangakhale ovuta kupirira. Kugona, kumene iwe unkagula bukwama la akazi, kumatanthauza kutengeka kwatsopano, ndipo izi zingakhale zonse zakuthupi ndi zauzimu. Sonnik akuti izi zikhoza kukhala njira yatsopano yopambana .
Ngati muli mu nyumba kwa nthawi yaitali kuyesa kupeza thumba, ndipo kufufuza kumathera bwino, ndiye posachedwa mudzatha kupeza matalente obisika. Kwa munthu, maloto okhudzana ndi thumba lazimayi amalosera ubale watsopano womwe ungathe kutha ndi ukwati. Chikwama cha matumba ambiri ndi chiwonetsero cha kusintha kwa nyumba ndipo izi zingayambitse mavuto ambiri. Masomphenya ausiku, pamene wina amapereka thumba ngati mphatso, kusintha kwa ndalama. Kulota thumba lazimayi lopangidwa ndi chikopa kwa mkazi wokwatira ndi chizindikiro cha maonekedwe a wokondedwa yemwe adzasintha moyo wake wonse. Chikwama chokongola chimalonjeza kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chokonda, ndipo komabe mukhoza kuyembekezera kuyendetsa makwerero a ntchito.