Nthawi imodzi mu moyo wa munthu aliyense, lingaliro la kusewera munthu kunja kwa chilengedwe chawo limayendera. Zomwe muli nazo zimakhala nthabwala zosiyana kwambiri: kuchokera kwa anthu opanda vuto kupita ku malo enieni.
1. Yesetsani kusewera masewerawa. Mukufunsa anthu ena mafunso awa: "Ndi angati omwe angakhale 1 + 1?" 2 + 2? 4 + 4? ". Kenaka afunseni kuti awatchule masamba. Pafupipafupi anthu amawatcha kaloti.
2. Mukamakangana ndi munthu wina, yesetsani kukhala chete. Mwina, msinkhu wa chisangalalo chanu chiyenera kukhala chochepa kuposa cha mdani wanu. Izi zimapangitsa anthu kulankhula zinthu zopanda pake zomwe inu mungathe kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
3. Ngati mukufuna kupeza chilolezo kuchokera kwa munthu, ndizotheka kugwedeza mutu wanu panthawi yomwe mumapempha funso lofunikila. Nthawi zambiri amavomereza nanu kapena amapereka chilolezo.
4. Aliyense amadziwa chizindikiro pamene anthu awiri akukweza dzanja ndikuchikwapula m'manja mwa wina, akunena pamene akunena kuti: "Perekani zisanu!". Inde, onse osachepera kamodzi. Panthawi yotsatira mungathe kukhala chete pamtunda wanu, panthawi ya thonje ndikuyang'ana m'kamwa la mnzanu. Ndikhulupirire, simungaphonye.
5. Ambiri mwa anthu adakumana ndi vuto pamene pamutu nyimbo iliyonse yododometsa yosokoneza zinthu nthawi zonse imapotozedwa. Kuti muchotse mwamsanga, tangolani pamapeto pamutu wa nyimboyi. Zochitika zoterezi zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zomwe zimatchedwa Zeigarnik zotsatira, zomwe zimaphatikizapo kuti zochita zosakumbukika za munthu zimakumbukira bwino kuposa zomwe zakwaniritsidwa.
6. Chizoloŵezi chabwino choyankhulana ndi ana. Nthawi zonse makolo amakumana ndi kusamvera ana. Ngati mukufuna kuti mwana achite chinachake kapena adye, yesetsani kumanga zokambirana zanu motere: "Wokondedwa, imwani mkaka!". Mwanayo amakana. Ndiye mufunseni funso ili: "Ndi chikho chiani-buluu kapena chofiira-kodi mungakonde kumwa?". Adzasankha mtundu ndi kumwa mkaka. Choyamba.
7. Pakati pa zokambirana, yesetsani kukhala chete. Pali lingaliro lakuti anthu sakonda kukhala chete ndi chete, kotero iwo amayesetsa kuthetsa izo. Ingokhala oleza mtima.
8. Ngati mukufuna kuti okhulupilira anu azikhulupirira mabodza anu, yesetsani kutchula zambiri za inu nokha. Mwachitsanzo, m'malo moti, "Ayi, sindinali m'nyumba ya James. Ndinali ndi Randy nthawi zonse. " Yesani kunena kuti: "Ayi, sindinali ndi James panthawiyo. Ndatseka mbale yake, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti makolo ake sakufuna kundionanso m'nyumba. Choncho ndinali ndi Randy. "
9. Mu kampani yaikulu, mukhoza kuchita zochepa. Uzani anecdote. Munthu woyamba yemwe mumamuyang'ana kuti awone zomwe amachitapo ndi wapafupi kwambiri kwa inu.
10. Muziseka wina. Funsani munthuyo kuti ayang'ane m'maso anu ndipo musawasunthe. Ndiye funsani zomwe mnzanu wadya masiku atatu apitawo. Malingana ndi ziwerengero, anthu ambiri sangathe kuyankha, chifukwa ndi zovuta kukumbukira zambiri popanda kusuntha maso anu.
11. Ngati mumalankhulana ndi interlocutor, zitsimikiziranso kuti adzakuyankhani.
12. Pamene mukuyesera kupeza chinachake, nthawi zambiri, mukuyang'ana kuchokera kumanja kupita kumanzere mmalo moyang'ana kuchokera kumanzere kupita kumanja. Chifukwa cha ichi, simungathe kupeza chinthu chomwe chataya, mwamsanga chifukwa maso anu akuyang'aniridwa kokha ndi njira imodzi. Yesani kusintha kusintha kwa maso anu.
13. Ngati mukufuna kuti wina akhulupirire nkhani yosamvetsetseka, bwerezani izi katatu, kuonjezera nkhani iliyonse tsatanetsatane. Mwachitsanzo, nenani kuti: "Kodi mukukumbukira zomwe zikuchitika kusukulu pamene aphunzitsi athu alowa m'galimoto ya aphunzitsi a masamu pamalo osungirako magalimoto?" Mwinamwake, kwa nthawi yoyamba palibe wina amene adzakukhulupirirani, koma ngati nthawi yachiwiri ndi yachitatu inu muwonjezerapo tsatanetsatane, ndiye ndithudi munthu adzasankha kuti nkhani yanu ndi yoona.
14. Zimadabwitsa abwenzi anu pogwiritsa ntchito njira yotsatirayi. Funsani wina kuti anene mawu omwe mumalankhula. Munthu akangoyankha, nthawi yomweyo funsani funso: "Kodi mumatani mukamawona kuwala kobiriwira?". Mudzadabwa ndi yankho lawo lolakwika.
15. Kuti mukwaniritse malo a munthu nokha, ndikwanira kulola munthu uyu kukupatsani ulemu.
16. Chinsinsi chochepa cha mphoto. Ngati mukumva kuti mdani wanu akusewera bwino ndikuyamba kusiya malo anu, mum'funseni funso ili: "Kodi mumasewera bwanji bwino?". Pambuyo pa funso ili, masewerawa adzasintha malingaliro, chifukwa mdani wanu ayamba kuganiza za funso lanu.
17. Kuti mupeze chinyengo pa munthu yemwe akuyesera kuwerengera chinachake, muyenera kungolemba nambala ya nambala m'malo mwa nambala yosankhidwa mosavuta. Ubongo wawo udzawonongeka mwamsanga.
18. Ikani zochitika pa wina wa mamembala anu, kutsimikizira kuti palibe amene angathe kuzindikira mkaka wa mafuta osiyana kuti alawe. Chitani zotsatirazi: gwiritsani ntchito "diso" ndikuyesa mkaka. Chikho chotsiriza cha mkaka chimasinthidwa ndi madzi a lalanje. Thupi la munthu likukonzekera kulandira mkaka, kotero madzi osadziwika angayambe kusanza. Onetsetsani kusunga chidebe ndi inu ngati mutasankha kuyesera.
19. Ngati mukufuna kuchotsa chinthu pamene mukuyenda, ndiye zokwanira kupereka mnzanu chinthu ichi, mofanana ndikuyankhula naye. Pakukambirana munthu amatenga zonse zomwe wapatsidwa popanda kulingalira chilichonse.
20. Chinsinsi cha kupambana masewera otchuka: "Mwala, lumo, mapepala." Musanayambe kuwerengera, funsani funso lanu kwa munthu amene mumamuuza. Ndiye pitirizani kuwerengera ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika. Kaŵirikaŵiri munthu amasankha mkasi, kuyambitsa mtundu wa chitetezo cha chidziwitso chake.
21. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, munthu amatha kulamulira anthu mothandizidwa ndi maso. Anthu nthawi zonse amayang'ana momwe akufunira kupita, choncho, ayamba kuyang'ana maganizo anu kuti mudziwe komwe mukupita. Kulandira koteroko kukutanthauza kuti mungathe kusokoneza munthu ngati mukuyang'ana kumalo kumene kugunda kungachitike.
22. Ndipo zonyansa kwambiri, koma zonyansa kwambiri. Yendani kumalo ositirako kwa munthu ndikumufunseni kuti atseke maso ake ndi kuyesa masewera a makadi. Pamene munthu ali wotanganidwa, mukhoza kudya chakudya chonse ndikuthawa mosazindikira.