Ngati wina wapereka chofunkha pa ubale wanu, mumamva ndithu. Mudzakhala ndi lingaliro lotha kupasula, kuti sizinthu zonse "zoyera" apa. Koma popeza kuwonongeka kungakhudzire maganizo anu kwa mnzanu, simudzakhumudwa kwambiri chifukwa cha malingaliro okhudza kupatukana kwa mtsogolo, kuyambira tsopano, chirichonse chomwe chikugwirizana nacho chiri ndi choyamba "ayi."
Ziphuphu ndi moyo wamtundu
Zotsatira za kusokonezeka pa maubwenzi zimapitirira ku mbali zonse za moyo. Maonekedwe anu amasintha maganizo onse. Mutha kutaya mtima kuntchito, maubwenzi anu ndi anzako amakula kwambiri, ndi inu padzakhala mikangano ndi zoopsa, ngakhale anthu osadziwika.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti kuwonongeka kwa kugonana kumasintha kwenikweni maonekedwe anu pamaso pa anthu ena, komanso momwe maonekedwe anu akuonekera. Inu nonse simukukhala kunja, koma mwamphamvu mwamphamvu. Choncho, pitirizani kuwona kuti tsopano mwathera ndi maubwenziwa "owonongeka" ndipo mudzapeza wina alibe. Pakuti mudzakoka pa temberero la temberero.
Zizindikiro
Chizindikiro choyamba cha kuwonongedwa pa chiyanjano ndi kusagwirizana mwadzidzidzi, komwe kulibe kulingalira kokwanira. Komabe, iwe ndi mnzanuyo mumaganizo mwanu nthawi zonse mumapeza chifukwa, osati zomveka, koma zopusitsa.
Pakati pa inu, kugwirizana kwa mphamvu kutayika. Mumakhala pafupi, osasangalatsa, owopsa komanso osasangalatsa. Pansi pa chinyengo chilichonse mumachoka panyumbamo, mugone ndikudya pachake.
Mwachidziwitso mudzayika chidutswa cha "osati" kwa mnzanuyo. Simukufuna kukhala ndi ana wamba,
Ziphuphu ndi kusagwirizana kwa ubale sizothandiza kokha mu maganizo, koma komanso muzinthu zamagwirizano. Mudzagonjetsa kugonana kwa wina ndi mzake. Munthu akhoza kukhala wopanda mphamvu (mosasamala za msinkhu), ndipo mkazi amamva ululu m'mimba pamunsi.
Inu, monga mtundu uliwonse wa kuwonongeka, mudzazunzidwa ndi zoopsa . Chokhacho "chachikulu" cha maloto anu chidzakhala wanu wokondedwa. Adzakuzunzani, kuthamangitsa, kupha usiku uliwonse.