Funso la momwe tingagulitsire moyo kwa satana nthawi zambiri lasewera m'mabuku a dziko lapansi ndi mafilimu. Mukhoza kukumbukira nyimbo zowala, monga filimu "Yobisika ndi Zilakolako," ndi ntchito zachikale, monga "Chigamba cha Shagreen" Honore de Balzac (pano mutuwu umasewera mosiyana, koma chofunika ndi chimodzimodzi). Chikhalidwe cha dziko lapansi chimagwirizana pa lingaliro kuti ngati izi zingatheke, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zoopsa ndi zowononga. Komabe, palinso anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti zingakhale zokopa kwambiri kugulitsa moyo kwa satana chifukwa cha chikhumbo, ndipo ali ndi chidwi ndi tsatanetsatane wa izi.
Momwe mungagulitsire moyo kwa satana?
Njira yokha yogulitsa moyo kwa anthu "odziwa" ikuwonetsedwa ngati chinthu chovuta kwambiri, chomwe chimaphatikizapo masitepe angapo:
- Poyambirira, muyenera kupanga pempho, kuti mufotokoze malingaliro anu kugulitsa moyo kwa satana ndalama.
- Ndiye nkofunikira kuyembekezera kuti mdierekezi abwere - ali, monga lamulo, mu loto, mofanana ndi munthu wamtali, wotsamira mu zovala zodula, zokongola.
- Chikhalidwe ichi chiyenera kutsogolo kupereka, ndipo "wogulitsa" ayenera kupanga chochita.
- Kenaka akuyenera kulemba risiti, kuika siginecha (m'magulu ena amatchulidwa kuti siginecha iyenera kulembedwa mu magazi).
Ndikofunika - cholinga chogulitsa moyo pamtundu woterewu ukhale wodzikonda, mwa kuyankhula kwina, moyo sungagulitsidwe chifukwa cha chimwemwe kwa munthu wina. Njirayi imagwira ntchito ndi zilakolako zochepa chabe, ngati satana angakane.
Kodi kugulitsa moyo kwa satana kumatanthauzanji?
Si chinsinsi kuti mdierekezi ndi wotsutsana ndi Mulungu, mbuye wa zoipa, nkhondo ndi zoipa zomwe zilipo padziko lapansi. Choncho, pakupanga chiyanjano ndi khalidwe lotere, n'zovuta kudalira chikumbumtima chake. Adzayesera kutenga moyo wa munthuyo m'nthaŵi yochepa kwambiri, yomwe ndiyomwe, atalandira receiptyo, akhoza kupangitsa zotsatira zolakwika zosiyanasiyana:
- Pokhala wolemera, munthu akhoza kukhala wotayika, nthawi ndi nthawi akugwera pa ngozi ndi ngozi. Kawirikawiri moyo wa anthu ogulitsa miyoyo pambuyo pa msonkhanowu umatha zaka zingapo chabe.
- Kuti mdierekezi akwaniritse maudindo ake mwachilungamo, munthu ayenera kupanga zoipa zambiri momwe zingathere padziko lapansi (koma musaiwale kuti izi zidzatsutsidwa ndi mphamvu zamagetsi, ndipo mwina simungakwanitse zaka zanu padziko lapansi).
- Pokhala mutagulitsa moyo wanu, munthu akuyenera kufunafuna anthu ena amene akufuna kugulitsa miyoyo - iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yopezera moyo.
- Musanagulitse moyo kwa satana kuti apeze chuma, yesani zonse monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira - zotsatira za ntchitoyi zidzakhala zosasinthika.
Kodi n'zotheka kugulitsa moyo kwa satana?
Nthawi zina anthu omwe ali ndi chikondi chosasangalatsa kapena otopa chifukwa chosoŵa ndalama amapeza lingaliro lakugulitsa moyo wokongola kwambiri. Kuiwala kuti moyo suli wa munthu, ndipo ndi gawo la chilengedwe, ndipo ali ndi ufulu kutaya yekha Mlengi. Sitikudziwika ngati pali milandu yowonjezera chuma kapena chikondi chifukwa cha malonda, koma zotsatira zowononga ngati zosatheka kukhala ndi ana odzazidwa ndi uzimu
Lingaliro loti alandire madalitso a moyo, kugulitsa zomwe poyamba pakuwona silo chofunikira choyamba chofunikira, limasonyeza munthu ngati munthu wofooka, wosakhoza kuthana ndi mavuto a moyo payekha, akukhulupirira kuti chirichonse chiyenera kupita monga choncho. Poganizira za kugulitsa kwa moyo, munthu amadzivomereza yekha kuti ali wofooka komanso alibe ufulu.
Mmalo moganizira za malonda oterewa, ndi bwino kudzigwedeza nokha, kuzindikira kuti nokha ndiwe wopanga zida zamakono ndipo mukhoza kupanga moyo wanu momwe mukufunira. Funsani mphunzitsi waphunzitsi kuti awathandize ngati zikuwoneka kuti simungathe kupirira. Izi zidzakupatsani zotsatira zowonjezereka, zofulumira komanso zopanda mavuto.