Mayi aliyense watsopano, yemwe akukonzekera kulemba kwa amai, akuyenera kutulutsa kalata yobereka ndi khadi losinthanitsa. Komabe, siyense amene amamvetsa kufunika kwa zolembazi ndipo nthawi zambiri sadziwa pamene makhadi ochezera oyembekezera amaperekedwa komanso chifukwa chake chikuchitika. Tiyeni tiganizire pamodzi njira ndi tanthauzo la kutulutsa chikalata ichi.
Kodi khadi lapakati limaperekedwa liti?
Muzosiyana zosiyana, mawonekedwe a khadi losinthanitsa kwa amayi oyembekezera angawoneke ngati magazini, pepala laling'ono kapena pepala lopangidwa ndi accordion. Koma mulimonsemo, mkazi amapeza pomwepo, atangofuna kulemba. Pamene mayi wapakati apatsidwa khadi losinthanitsa, adokotala amalemba zonse zokhudza mayi wamtsogolo, nthawi ya kugonana, zotsatira za mayesero ndi maphunziro, tsiku loyenera kulandira ndi zina zofunika. Ngati khadi la kusinthanitsa limaperekedwa, mayi akhoza kutsimikiza kuti dokotala aliyense, ngati ali ndi nthawi yobereka msinkhu kapenanso kusokonekera kwa mimba, amayamba kuyenda mofulumira.
Kukhadwanso kwa khadi losinthanitsa la amayi oyembekezera liyenera kuchitika pasanathe mwezi umodzi asanabadwe. Koma kawirikawiri akazi amadzimangirira pa lipoti lake lofulumira, kuti azikhala nawo nthawi zonse zofunikira.
Amayi ena amtsogolo omwe akukumana ndi vuto la momwe angapezere khadi lachindunji, ndipo safuna kuti azipita kukapempha nthawi zonse ndikukayezetsa mayeso pa nthawi ya mimba , akuyesera kugula fomu yomaliza. Ichi ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu komwe kungasanduke zotsatira zosalephereka pakubereka.
Khadi loguliranso la mayi woyembekezera ayenera kutenga zonse zowonjezereka zokhudzana ndi umoyo wa mkazi ndi mwana, zomwe zidzakhala chitsimikizo chowonjezera cha njira yobereka. Akasayina khadilo, ayenera kulembedwa ndi dokotala wamkulu wa kuwonana kwa amayi komanso azimayi omwe ali ndi pakati.