Kubadwa kwa mwana ndi nthawi yovuta, chifukwa munthu watsopano m'banja amafunika kudziganizira kwambiri. Ndicholinga chakuti lamulo limapereka mwayi wopita kuchisamaliro cha mwana, pambuyo pake, monga lamulo, kumeneko sikungokhalabe mphamvu ndi nthawi yogwira ntchito.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji tchuthi?
Kusiya kuyamwitsa kumaperekedwa mpaka mwanayo atakwanitsa zaka zitatu. Kwa nthawi yonseyi, wogwira ntchitoyo amasunga malo ake ogwira ntchito ndipo amawerengedwa onse muutali wautumiki wonse komanso wapadera. Nthawi yomweyo muyenera kufotokoza, kuti sangagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi amayi kapena abambo okha, koma ngakhale agogo, agogo aamuna kapena ena othandizira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti wachibale aliyense amene amakambirana ndi mwana wakhandayo amamusamalira.
Malingana ndi malamulo ovomerezeka a kukonzekera mapindu muyenera kupeza zifukwa zotsatirazi:
- Pasipoti.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito phindu la ndalama, kutsirizidwa mwapadera.
- Chidziwitso chachikulu cha mwanayo ndi chiphaso chobadwira .
- Ngati simukugwira ntchito, muyenera kupereka choyambirira ndi buku la ntchito. Ngati mwalembedwera ndi malo ogwira ntchito, mudzafunikira chikalata chotsimikizira kuti pakalipano palibe malipiro kapena thandizo lazinthu la kusowa ntchito. Monga lamulo, ili ndi kalata ya mawonekedwe ovomerezeka.
- Ngati muli a kagulu ka ophunzira, mufunikira chiphaso kapena zolemba zina kuchokera pamalo ophunzirira omwe amatsimikizira kuti ali wophunzira.
- Kwa otsogolera, zofunikirazo zidzakhala chisankho pa kukhazikitsidwa kapena kusamalidwa.
Milandu yapadera
Milandu yapadera imalongosola, mwachitsanzo, zachindunji za kupereka nthawi yachisamaliro kuti muzisamalira mapasa, ndipo palinso mafunso ambiri okhudza momwe mungapezere phindu. Pankhaniyi, njirayi ndi yotheka pamene mamembala osiyanasiyana amadziyang'anira okha, maphunziro ndi kusamalira ana osiyanasiyana. Kuphatikizapo ndalama zakuthupi zimadalira abale angapo.
Ndikofunika kukumbukira lamulo limodzi losavuta - malamulo samapereka mpata nthawi yomweyo kuti asamalire mapasa ndi kubwerera kwa amayi oyembekezera pokhudzana ndi mimba ndi kubala. Choncho, malipiro angalandire ndi mamembala osiyanasiyana a m'banja. Komabe, tifunikira kuwona kufunika kowonetsera mu ntchito, mwana ndi
Kuti musamalire mwanayo omwe agogo ndi agogo anu amapanga, kuti mupange njirayi kuti mupitirize kusamalira mdzukulu wanu, muyenera kubweretsa kuwonjezera pa ntchitoyi, zomwe zikutsimikiziridwa kuti makolo sakugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yotereyi ndipo sadzalandira malipiro ndi malipiro owonjezera kwa mwanayo. Pansi pa chikhalidwe ichi, malipiro a chisamaliro amaperekedwa kwa woyang'anira weniweni. Kuwonjezera apo, amaloledwa kugwira ntchito, komabe, pokhapokha ngati ali ndi tsiku lalifupi logwira ntchito, kapena, kugwira ntchito kunyumba.