Mpaka posachedwa munagwira chidutswa chaching'ono m'manja mwanu, ndipo tsopano - ndipo munalibe nthawi yoyang'ana mmbuyo! - ganizirani momwe mungakondwerere zaka ziwiri za mwana wanu. Chabwino, takusonkhanitsani zinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri pa holideyi.
Kodi ndikuti kuti mukakondwerere zaka 2 za kubadwa kwa mwana?
Kulemba zaka 2 mwanayo akhoza kukhala pakhomo. Makamaka, ndithudi, m'nyengo yozizira. Koma musaganize kuti izi zikutanthauza kusonkhana komanso kusonkhana patebulo! Ngakhalenso malo osowa kunyumba akhoza kupanga chikondwerero - padzakhala chilakolako. Tembenuzani nyimbo, muzikongoletsa zipinda ndi mipira, mabuloni ndi zinthu zina zomwe ana amakonda kwambiri. Iyayi!
Mwachilengedwe, mutha kuona mwana wa zaka ziwiri. Pitani ku nyanja kapena ku nkhalango. Mungatenge ndi zakudya zokoma, kukhala ndi picnic , kukopera nyimbo zabwino, kupanga zokondwa, komanso chofunika kwambiri musaiwale kutenga kamera kapena kamera. Ndithudi inu nonse mumafuna kutenga nthawi zosangalatsa. Ndiyeno mukhoza kusonyeza mavidiyo ndi zithunzi kwa mwana wanu wamkulu ndikukhudzidwa nokha.
Kodi mungakondwere bwanji tsiku lobadwa la mwana wazaka 2?
Pemphani ana! Zoonadi, mwanayo adzasokonezeka ndi kucheza ndi anthu ena akuluakulu - asiyeni anawo kusewera ndi kusangalala pansi pa ulamuliro wanu. Koma osaitanira ana ambiri: pamene mwana ali ndi zaka ziwiri zokha, ndibwino kuitana anthu atatu kapena anai, kuti asawongolenso dongosolo la mantha la alendo.
Ndibwinonso kulingalira pazinthu za ana. Kumbukirani kuti ana a msinkhu uwu samakonda kukhala patebulo kwa nthawi yayitali, kotero muyenera kumaphatikizapo chakudya chamwambo mndandanda - masangweji ang'onoang'ono, makeke, zipatso. Chakumwa, madzi ndibwino. Kotero, ana, atatha mokwanira, akhoza kukhutiritsa njala ndi kupeza mphamvu, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo holideyo idzakhala yachilendo ndi yobwana.
Mu moyo wa mwanayo, tsiku lirilonse ndi lofunika kwambiri. Chaka chapitacho mwana wanu sanamvetse tanthauzo la tchuthi, ndipo tsopano akhoza kusangalala nawo mokwanira. Konzani mwana wanu tsiku losangalala, lokondwa lodzaza ndi chikondwerero, ndipo mutha kusangalala ndi kumwetulira kwake pa tsiku la biennium, ndiyeno muzithunzi zambiri.