Kodi mkono wamanja ukuwombera chiyani?

Mpaka pano, zizindikiro zambiri zatsikira. Pakati pa iwo, munthu akhoza kusankha gulu lapadera la zikhulupiliro za mbali zosiyanasiyana za thupi. Kumene iwo amachokera sichidziwika, chifukwa anawoneka zaka khumi ndi ziwiri zapitazo. Podziwa chifukwa chake dzanja lamanja likugunda, mukhoza kukonzekera zochitika zina zam'tsogolo. Monga mu zochitika zonse zamatsenga, chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhulupirira kuti zenizeni ndi zoona. Ngati kuyabwa sikuchoka kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo phokoso lirilonse lawonetsedwa, ndiye kuti mwamsanga pitani kwa dokotala, monga zizindikiro pano siziwathandiza.

Kodi mkono wamanja ukuwombera chiyani?

Anthu ambiri kamodzi kokha pamoyo wawo adakumana ndi vuto pamene pali kuyabwa m'thupi popanda chifukwa chilichonse. Kawirikawiri, chizindikiro ndi chizindikiro cha msonkhano, kutanthauza kuti, posachedwa uyenera kunena hello kwa wina. Chizindikiro china chimene chimalongosola chifukwa chake dzanja lamanja likukongoletsedwa, kapena koposa, chikhato cha dzanja, lingatanthauze kulandira ndalama zambiri posachedwa. Kuti mukhazikitse ndi kulimbitsa zochita za zamatsenga, mukhoza kuchita mwambo waung'ono. Kuwonetseratu kumawathandiza kwambiri. Tangoganizani kuti ndalamazo zili kale kale, mwamphamvu kwambiri zikanike mu nkhonya. Kenaka mupsompsone dzanja, motero kuwonetsa kuyamikira kwa ndalama, kuikankhira mu thumba lanu ndiyeno musamangire chifuwa chanu.

Zizindikiro za anthu, kufotokozera chomwe chiri kuti mbali zosiyana za dzanja lamanja zowonongeka:

1. Ngati kuyabwa kukuwoneka m'manja mwanu, ndiye kuti munthuyo wadzazidwa ndi ukali ndi ukali. Panali kukhulupirira zamatsenga, mwinamwake chifukwa chakuti munthu akamakwiya, amamenya chifuwa chake n'kuchichotsa. Komabe zikhoza kukhala zodabwitsa za msonkhano ndi theka lina.
2. Pamene chiwombankhanga chikuwombera, muyenera kuyembekezera kupezeka pamsonkhano wofunika kapena muyenera kupita kukachezera.
3. Tidzazindikira zomwe zikutanthauza ngati phewa lamanja likunyozedwa. Kuthyola m'malo muno kumakhala chenjezo kuti posachedwa kudzatenga nthawi yaitali kuchoka panyumbamo.
4. Ngati kuyabwa kunayambira pansi pa zipsinjo - izi ndi zovuta za matenda ofatsa.
5. Pali zizindikiro zomwe zimalongosola chifukwa chake kumenyana kolondola. Pachifukwa ichi, kuyabwa kumatanthawuza kuphulika kwa mikangano, zomwe zingabweretse nkhondo. Komabe, izi zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzayenera kukhala mu kama wa wina.
6. Kutanthauzira chizindikirocho, kumalongosola chomwe chimapweteka dzanja lamanja, ndizothandiza kukhala pa tanthauzo la chala chilichonse:

• wamkulu - amalonjeza mwayi ndi mwayi;
• ndondomeko - kupititsa patsogolo maulosi pamsinkhu wa ntchito ndi kupambana mu kuphunzira, koma zidzakhala zosakhalitsa;
• pafupifupi - kuyembekezera kulandira phindu lalikulu;
• kutchula dzina - kutulutsa chiwonongeko kuchokera ku chikoka;
• chala chaching'ono - malonjezano ndi mavuto.

Dzanja lamanja likhoza kukhala lovuta madzulo a nthawi yomwe ziganizo zofunika ziyenera kupangidwa, kudalira zolemba zanu.

Zikhulupiriro zina za manja

Omwe ali ndi manja ang'onoang'ono ali ndi mitsempha yopambana. Iwo ndi abwino kwambiri pakuyang'anira maudindo, kufika pamtunda waukulu m'munda uno. Mwamuna ndi manja akulu amakonda kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Iye amaoneka ngati malingaliro olingalira ndipo nthawizonse amaonetsetsa chidwi kwambiri ndi tsatanetsatane. Kale anthu ankakhulupirira kuti manja aubweya ndi chizindikiro cha chuma. Ngati tsitsi liri m'manja, ndiye kuti wamanyazi kwambiri ndipo alibe mphamvu zokwanira kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna. Anthu omwe ali ndi tsitsi lakuda ndi okonda, koma nthawi zambiri amakwiya. Amagwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zambiri pa chisangalalo, zomwe sizimalola kuti zinthu zikhale bwino. Anthu okhala ndi tsitsi lofiira kwambiri ndi manja awo.

Ndikoyenera kunena kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi ufulu wodzipangira yekha ngati amakhulupirira zizindikiro kapena ayi. Chinthu chokha chimene chinganenedwe poteteza zikhulupiliro ndi nzeru za makolo athu, ndipo anthu ambiri adziphunzira kuchokera ku zochitika zawo pazochita zawo.