Ndithudi inu mwazindikira chifukwa cha nthawi zomwe mumakonda, pamene ayamba "kuyenda" pomwepo. Gulu lingakhoze kulumphira pa maondo ake kwa mwini wake ndi kuyamba kusunthira kuchoka pawendo kupita paw. Ziri ngati kusamba minofu.
Choyamba, katsabola pang'onopang'ono ndi molondola pws paws, ndiyeno imakhala yamphamvu ndi yowonjezera. Ndiwe wokondwa komanso wosangalala kwambiri, koma posakhalitsa uzindikira kuti mphaka ukupondaponda mwamphamvu komanso kumasula ziphuphu. Kawirikawiri mfundo imeneyi imakhala ngati mthunzi wopeza minofu, pambuyo pake ikapweteka kwambiri.
Mphaka nthawi yomweyo amawoneka wokhumudwa ndipo samamvetsedwa. Zinthu zofananazi zingadabwe munthu pang'ono, koma ngakhale dontho la madzi limene lingakhalepo pambuyo pa zinyama. Inde, izo zimakhala zosangalatsa, chifukwa amphaka mnut paws ndi chiyani amatanthauza.
Bwanji amphaka akupondaponda?
Funso la chifukwa chake amphaka akupondaponda, nthawi zonse amadzutsa chidwi chenicheni cha ambuye onse a nyama iyi. Ndizotheka kunena kuti wokonda nyumba iliyonse adzakhalabe mwana wamphongo mu njira imodzi. Mumapereka zinyama zonsezi kuti zikhale ndi moyo, zomwe zimathandiza kuti khungu lisadere nkhawa za zakudya ndi mawa. Iye sakusowa kuti "akule". Mwa njira zina, mumakhala mayi woyamwitsa pa chiweto chanu. Pa nthawi yomwe mumakonzedwa bwino pabedi, mbuzi imabwera ndikukugwirani ndipo imapondaponda pa mawondo ake. Mukamapweteka mphaka wanu, amachichotsa ngati akuchotsa amayi ake.
Nchifukwa chiyani amphaka amathamanga? Makhalidwe amenewa akhoza kufotokozedwa ngati mukupita ku ubwana wanu wautali. Gulu limaponyera paws kwambiri mwangwiro komanso osasintha. Nthawi yamphindi mungazindikire kuti nthawi pakati pa zovutazo ndi chimodzimodzi, pang'onopang'ono ikufulumira. Ndi nthawi yomwe msanga umayamba kumasula ziphuphu, zomwe zimapweteka munthu.
Ngati simunangotenga mwana wamphongo, ndi kutulutsa nyama izi, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri ankayang'ana kudya. Pakati pa kudyetsa, tizilombo timapanga kayendedwe kofanana. Nchifukwa chiyani amphaka amafufulira m'mimba mwa amayi awo ndi mapepala awo? Izi zimalimbikitsa mkaka. Mukamachita zimenezi, mumatha kumva kuchenjeza kwa makanda.
Nchifukwa chiyani amphaka akupondaponda pa chifuwa cha mwiniwake?
Popeza mwakhala mayi wa mwana wamphongo, amakuzindikira bwino. Mukakhala mosamala pabedi, mphaka imadziwa izi mwa njira yake: mwakonzeka kumasuka ndi kutengera chinyama kuchifuwa chanu. Mukafunsidwa chifukwa chake zidutsulo zikuponderezedwa, mungathe kunena monga chonchi: pamtundu wotere nyamayo imakhala yotetezeka. Mukamachita zimenezi, imatsuka kwambiri komanso imabisala. Ndicho chifukwa chake misala itatha, mukhoza kuyang'ana dontho la madzi pazovala zanu. Madzi oterewa sali kanthu koma matope a nyama. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake katsako amakhumudwa mukamayendetsa pa nthawi zoterezi. Ng'ombe yako imangomvetsa chifukwa chake mumamuchotsa, chifukwa ali mwana, khanda la mayiyo sanamuchitire zimenezo.
Bwanji amphaka akupondereza asanagone?
Mwinamwake mwazindikira kuti nthawi zina, musanagone, chiweto chanu chimayamba kuyendayenda. Kusuntha kwake kumakhala kosalala, kambalo limafotokoza maulendo angapo, kenako imagona. Izi zikhoza kufotokozedwa motere: chinyama chimakonza chisa chake usiku wonse. Amphaka sanali nthawi zonse ziweto, nthawi zonse sanagone pabedi ndi mwiniwake. M'masiku akale, nyamayo inagona pa udzu. Pa nthawi yomweyi, udzu unali wovuta, ndi momwe adagwiritsira ntchito katemera kuti agone. Anapondaponda pazithunzithunzi zake kuti apange malo abwino ogona usiku komanso kuti adziteteze.
Motero, kupondaponda kwa katsamba kumafotokozedwa ndi chikhalidwe chake: ena amachokera muubwana, ndipo ena amachokera kwa makolo.