Chikondi ndi choipa ndipo, mwatsoka, psychopaths amagwiritsa ntchito izo. Ndikofunika kudziwa nthawi yomwe pali chinachake cholakwika ndi mnyamatayo, komanso kuchoka ku "odwala" maubwenzi.
Tangoganizirani, padziko lapansi anthu okwana 4% amavutika maganizo, izi zikutanthauza kuti munthu mmodzi pa anthu 25 ali ndi ngozi. Makhalidwe a maganizowa akuphatikizapo chikondi chowonjezeka, chinyengo, kusowa chikumbumtima ndi chifundo. Kodi mwawona zizindikiro zofanana ndi chibwenzi chanu? Ndikhulupirire, izi si zabwino.
1. Ubale wabwino, monga m'nthano.
Wothandizana naye adakuzungulirani ndi chikondi, amasonyeza kukoma mtima, amakwaniritsa zovuta zonse, mwachidziwikire, palikumverera kuti pano ndi kalonga wamkulu kuyembekezeredwa, ndipo moyo wakhala nkhani yachinsinsi. N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti njira zake zimapambana, chifukwa zimakhala zovuta kukana kutamandidwa, kusamalidwa komanso kukoma mtima. Ngati si nthawi yayitali, ndipo akulankhula kale za chikondi cholimba, ganizirani izi, chifukwa zikuwoneka ngati zikudandaula.
2. Lekani, imani, chinachake chikufulumira kwambiri.
Psychopaths ndi zovuta, ndipo simukufuna, kuvala chigoba cha "wamkulu kalonga" kwa nthawi yaitali, kotero amasankha masewera molingana ndi zochitika mwamsanga. Amayankhula za chikondi chamuyaya, ana, ukwati ndi kuitana "theka lachiwiri" kuyambira nthawi yomwe amadziwana nawo? Kuthamanga, chifukwa changu choterocho chingayambitse kumapeto kokhumudwitsa.
3. Iye ndi nyenyezi yoposa.
Akazindikira kuti wogwidwayo "ali pachikopa," umunthu wa psychopath udzayamba kudziwonetsa pang'onopang'ono. Amakonda kukhala pakati pa chidwi, kuti aliyense amamuyamikira kapena amadandaula. Kuti achite izi, adzalumikiza malingaliro ake osatha ndikufotokozera m'mene adatulutsira mwanayo m'nyumba yotentha, momwe adagonjetsera matenda aakulu ndi zina zotero. Nthawi iliyonse nkhanizo zidzakhala zosayembekezereka ndipo zidzawoneka kuti Superman akutsatira.
4. Sindinachite izi ndipo sindinanene izi!
Ngati psychopath wokondedwa, posachedwa udzakhala ndi "wokondedwa" watsopano wokhala wosakhulupirika komanso wolakwa. Zonsezi - njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira, chifukwa mzimayi amatha kuchoka pazochitika zilizonse, monga wamatsenga waluso. Taganizirani zafupipafupi mawu oti "mumadzikweza" amveka? Ndipo chokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi chakuti pakapita kanthawi mudzagwirizana ndi izi.
5. Moyo umakhala wozungulira.
Mpaka posachedwapa, inu mumakhala ngati mngelo, wokongola kwambiri komanso wodabwitsa, ndipo lero sakuganiza choncho, ndipo nthawi zambiri mumamva nkhani zochititsa manyazi zosiyana. Ndi chamanyazi, sichoncho? Ngakhale kutaya chidwi kwa kanthaŵi kochepa ndi chizindikiro chakuti sikukhala bwino, ndipo mapeto sali kutali.
6. Khalani ndi nsanje, kulira, kufuula ...
A psycho ndi wokakamiza kwenikweni amene amakonda kudyetsa maganizo a anthu ena. Akuwoneka kusewera masewera, cholinga chake ndicho kugogoda pansi kuchokera pansi pa mapazi ake. Zili zomvetsa chisoni, koma nthawi zonse zovuta ndi chiyeso ziyenera kuchitika zokha, chifukwa chifundo chimakhala chachilendo kwa iye.
7. Cholinga chake ndicho kuchita zopweteka kwambiri.
Mnyamata wa psychopathic amayesetsa kufufuza mosamala nyama yakeyo kuti azindikire zofooka kuti azichita bwino. Amakonda kuchita "mafunso", kupeza zonse, ndikudziwerengera nkhani zofunika. Mukumenyana kulikonse, iye akungoganizira pa zovuta kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mumakhala m'banja losakwanira, ndikukhulupirirani, nthawi zambiri amaika kukanikiza.
8. Moyo unatembenuzidwa?
Pitani ku kalilole ndikuyang'anirani. Mwasiya kudzizindikira nokha, mumvetsetsa kuti moyo ukugwera kuphompho, ndipo musakumbukire pamene mudakondwa posachedwa? Ichi ndi chizindikiro chachikulu kuti ubale wanu ndi njira yopita, ndipo muyenera kusintha chinachake mwamsanga.