Inde, masiku onse kuchokera tsiku la ukwati ndi ofunika ndi osakumbukika, ndipo, aliyense mwa njira yake. Komabe, chisangalalo choyambirira chenichenicho ndi chaka chokumbukira zaka zisanu kapena zomwe zimatchedwa ukwati wamatabwa mwa anthu. Mwachitsanzo, ku Germany, malinga ndi chikhalidwe chakale, kuyambira zaka mazana apitayi, mitengo yachitsulo imaperekedwa kwa okwatirana pa tchuthi. Ku Russia mu nthawi zakale, mwamuna ndi mkazi adakondwerera tsiku la moyo wawo pamodzi "bwinobwino" pokhapokha mchizunguliro cha achibale awo apamtima ndipo, makamaka, achibale apatali. Komabe, lero zambiri zasintha ndipo kale ziribe malire ndi zofunikira, kotero palibe malire posankha zomwe mungapereke pa ukwati wamatabwa.
Mphatso zoyambirira komanso zamatsenga pa tsiku la matabwa
Mwina funso lalikulu lomwe liyenera kuthetsedwa, kudabwa ndi kusankha kwa mphatso, ndilo funso lachikale kapena loyambirira. Kwa oyamba, apa, mwachibadwa, lingaliro limabwera chifukwa cha ziwiya zamatabwa za mkazi ndi zida za zida za mwamuna wake, komanso mafano ndi zifaniziro zomwe zakhala zikukongoletsedwa ndi zachikale. Komabe, ngati palibe chilakolako chofuna kufunsa funsoli ndipo mukufuna kupereka mphatsoyo kwapachiyambi, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mulole. Choyamba, sikofunika kupereka zinthu zokha zopangidwa ndi matabwa, ndipo ngati mukufuna kusiya zomwe mwasankha, ndiye asiyeni akhale osiyana ndi zina zawo. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kukonza chophimba chokongoletsera, chomwe chithunzi cha okwatirana chimasamutsidwa, malinga ndi mfundo ya engraving.
Mphatso za tsiku lachikumbutso cha ukwati, mwamuna ndi mkazi komanso mosiyana ndizo zingakhale zachikondi kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, makonzedwe opangidwa ndi nkhuni omwe ali ndi mayina a wina ndi mzake, kapena ngakhale kamtengo kakang'ono kamtengo kameneka, kamabzala m'bwalo la nyumba ndikuwonetseranso kupambana kwa ubale wawo. Kawirikawiri, mkazi pa holide yoteroyo akhoza kupereka zodzikongoletsera zamatabwa, ndi munthu cufflinks. Chifukwa chake, kusankha kosatheka kulibe malire.
Njira yosiyana yogulira mphatso - ndi kuseketsa, idzakhala yosangalatsa komanso yosakumbukira. Anzanu apamtima angapereke mphatso zowonongeka zokhudzana ndi ukwati, mwachitsanzo:
- phokoso la nkhuni, atakulungidwa mu nsalu yofiira yofiira;
- chotsalira;
- gulu lazowonjezera;
ndipo ngati mutaperekanso kupereka chikumbutso ndi zokondweretsa - chitsimikizo ndi chitsimikizo. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusunga muyeso yonse komanso osakhumudwitsa eni ake, omwe chaka chachisanu ndi chimodzi chingakhale chofunikira choyamba cha moyo wawo pamodzi, chomwe amachitira nawo mozama ndikufuna kuona maganizo omwewo kuchokera kwa alendo awo.
Kodi ndingapeze kuti malingaliro a mphatso za ukwati wamatabwa?
Pakuti malingaliro a mphatso za mtengo wa matabwa safunikira kuti apite kutali, ndi kokwanira kuwachotsa iwo kuchokera ku mgwirizano wa moyo wa jubile,
- zinthu za mipando (mipando, tebulo, bedi , zovala);
- zojambula, mafelemu akuluakulu ndi zithunzi za banja;
- Zida zowonjezera zotsitsimula pa khonde kapena veranda.
Choncho, mphatso zabwino ndi zofunikira ndizosiyana kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuti muyankhe mwanjira iti - kuwonetsera kwakukulu kapena kuseketsa kwa chikumbutso ndi zomwe mungasankhe - zachikale kapena zenizeni.