Kuwona mazira ovunda m'maloto ndi chizindikiro cha vuto, ndipo kumvetsetsa izi, wina sasowa kukhala mpenyi. Dzira ndilo chizindikiro cha moyo, kubwereranso, ndipo ngati ilo lawonongedwa mu loto, nkofunikira kutanthauzira molondola chizindikiro ichi ndi kutenga zoyenera.
Kodi nkhuku yovunda ya nkhuku imawoneka bwanji?
Mazira ovunda m'maloto - chenjezo osati kokha potsutsa vuto, komanso kuti, ngakhale kulimbika konse, zotsatira zake sizingapewe. Koma izi sizikutanthawuza kuti muyenera kudziyanjanitsa ndi kuyembekezera vuto, "kuyika zitsamba" akadalibe phindu.
Mayi wodwala kuti awone mazira owongoka maloto - chenjezo pokhudzana ndi thanzi labwino komanso la mwanayo. Pachifukwa ichi, musasokoneze kuyankhulana ndi dokotala.
Kuponya mazira owolota maloto - kuopseza kutaya chinthu china chamtengo wapatali. Ngati dzira lovunda limalota munthu wokondana, limatanthauza kuti, mwachikondi, chinthu chokondana ndichokhazikika kapena chimakhala ndi cholinga chodzikonda.
Ngati dzira lovunda m'maloto lasweka, lingatanthauze:
- vuto m'banja - kusakhulupilira mkazi, kukangana ndi ana kapena makolo;
- kusakhulupirika kwa mnzanu - mu malo oyandikana ndi otota pali munthu yemwe angathe kukhala wochita bwino;
- kuwonongeka kwa miyezo ya moyo - wolotayo ayenera kuganiziranso zofunikira;
- mavuto chifukwa cha kukhudzidwa - munthu amene wawona maloto ayenera kuphunzira momwe angakhalire ndi manja.
Nchifukwa chiyani mazira ovunda owiritsa akulota?
Mkazi wamalonda, amene adawona maloto ake akuphika mazira owopsa, ayenera kupewa kuchita zambiri, tk. ndiwopseza kwambiri kwambiri kuti mutha kukhala osokonezeka kapena kutaya ndalama chifukwa cha mphamvu majeure. Panthawi zovuta kwambiri, zingakhale zopanda phindu kutsimikizira - kuphatikizapo kufufuza mgwirizano ndi advocats kapena kuonetsetsa katunduyo.
Mazira ambiri ovunda - yaiwisi ndi yophika - angatanthauzire kugwa kwa munthu yemwe adalota. Ntchito imodzi yokha yosavuta yolota ingasinthe maganizo a anthu ambiri kwa iye, ndipo mbiri idzakhala yovuta kwambiri kubwezeretsa ndi kudzilemekeza.