Pafupifupi aliyense woimira zachiwerewere nthawi zonse amakhudzidwa ndi funso la momwe angakhalire mkazi wabwino? Ndipotu, timakonda kudzikonda tokha, pamene tiyang'ana pagalasi, komanso, ngati ena. Ndipo kotero sizodabwitsa konse kuti akazi onse amafuna kukhala abwino kwa iwo okha, kwa amuna awo, ndi kwa abwenzi. Ndikufuna kumverera bwino ndi ine ndekha. Koma kodi iye ndi chiani, chodabwitsa kwambiri chomwe aliyense akufuna? Kumbali imodzi, zikuwoneka ngati atsikana onse akuyesera chinthu chomwecho, koma mbali ina ikusonyeza kuti zoyenera ndizosiyana kwa aliyense, ndi njira zothandizira izo, nayenso. Koma tiyeni tiwone mwachindunji momwe munthu angakhalire wabwino, ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti achite izi.
Momwe mungakhalire angwiro m'zonse?
Zoonadi, simunganene kuti ndizofunikira - uyu ndi mtsikana yemwe angathe kuchita bwino. Mwachitsanzo, amavala bwino, kapena amakonzekera bwino. Ayi, mtsikana uyu, ngati ali wangwiro, akuphatikiza makhalidwe onse abwino. Amavala bwino, ndi kuphika chokoma, ndipo amaphunzitsidwa mokwanira, ndipo amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi anthu, ndi kukhala mkazi wabwino. Mwinamwake, mwangwiro chifukwa zoyenera zimagwirizanitsa zinthu zambiri, pakuti ambiri sangathe kuzipeza. Koma, ngakhale zilipo, pali atsikana angapo omwe angatchedwe abwino. Choncho tiyeni tione mfundo zomwe msungwana wabwino ayenera kuoneka komanso zomwe ayenera kuchita.
Zovala ndi zodzoladzola. Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungakhalire angwiro kunja. Zoonadi, ichi si chinthu chofunikira kwambiri, koma aliyense akudziwa kuti amakumana, choyamba, ndi zovala, ndipo akukambirana kale makhalidwe ena. Msungwana woyenera amadziwa momwe angavalidwe mwangwiro ndi kupanga mapangidwe kuti agogomeze ulemu wake wonse ndi kubisala zolakwa. Ndipo mawonekedwe ake, ndithudi, adzakondweretsa aliyense woyandikana nawo, koma chinthu chachikulu ndichokondweretsa nokha.
Chithunzi ndi thanzi. Chachiwiri, chofunika kwambiri kwa inu nokha, msungwana wabwino ayenera kukhala ndi chithunzi chokongola. Aliyense tsopano akudziwa kuti munthu wabwino amaoneka bwanji, koma sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kupereka chokoleti chokoma kuti awone pagalasi. Koma msungwana yemwe amafunitsitsa kuchita zabwino, ayenera kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi, kusewera masewera ndi kudzikana yekha mu zilakolako zosafunikira.
Makhalidwe ndi ena ndi maphunziro. Komanso, msungwana wabwino ayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe. Makhalidwe ake ayenera kulemekezedwa: kumwetulira kosangalatsa, kufunitsitsa kuthandiza, kulemekeza. Ndipo sizingakuthandizeni kokha kuntchito kapena kunyumba, koma kunyumba. Mu ubale wa banja uyenera kukhala osati chikondi kapena chilakolako - maganizo omwe ali ndi katundu mwamsanga, komanso kulemekezana. Komanso, mtsikana wabwino ayenera kuwerenga bwino ndi kuphunzitsidwa - izi siziyenera kuiwalika, komanso makhalidwe abwino.
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