Amayi ambiri amadandaula kuti atatha kugawanitsa sangathe kuiwala munthu ndikukumverera kokongola. Anthu ogwira ntchito ndi mphamvu akufotokozera izi ponena kuti pa nthawi yapakati pa zibwenzi pali kugwirizana kwina komwe kumapangidwira, komwe mwachibadwa kumathera patatha zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zokha. Ngati banjali litasokonezeka, ndipo kugwirizana kwa mphamvu pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi kumakhalapo, pangakhale mavuto osiyanasiyana, pokhapokha pa chikhalidwe chauzimu ndi thupi. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kusokoneza onse omwe alipo kale mwamsanga.
Kodi mungathe bwanji kuchotsa magwirizano amphamvu ndi anzanu omwe kale anali nawo?
Pali mwambo wina umene udzabweretse mphamvu yotayika ndikuphwanya kukhudzana. Ndibwino kuti muzigwiritsa ntchito masiku 19 okha . Pambani, onetsetsani kuti palibe chosokoneza kapena chosokonezedwa. Dzuwa litalowa, khalani m'chipinda chamdima ndikuyatsa kandulo. Khalani osangalala ndikuyesera kukumbukira okwatirana onse pazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazo.
Konzani momwe mungathyole chigwirizano cha mphamvu:
- Lumikizani chala chachikulu ndi chachindunji kudzanja lamanja kuti mzerewo ufike. Lembetseni mimba kumalo kumene chiberekero chili. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti thupi ili liri ndi mphamvu ya amai, ndipo pali ulusi umene umagwirizanitsa ndi zakale.
- Kuletsa kugwirizanitsa mphamvu ndi akale, taganizirani malo ano, ndikuyika mpheteyo kwa maola 12. Kujambula kuyenera kuyang'ana pansi.
- Tembenuzani mutu wanu kumanzere, zomwe zidzasonyeze zakale. Kutenga mpweya, kumbukirani munthu yemwe anali naye pachibwenzi. Pambuyo pake, tembenuzirani mutu wanu, womwe umaimira lero.
- Kuti athetse kugwirizana kwa mphamvu pakati pa okonda, ndi kofunikira, kusunthira molowetsa mmbuyo mowirikiza kumbuyo pakati, kukasonkhanitsa ulusi wammbuyo. Pangani magulu atatu oterowo.
- Pambuyo pake, tembenuzirani mutu wanu kumanja, ndiko kuti, m'tsogolomu, ndipo, kupuma kunja, kutaya ulusi uwu.
Mwambowu uyenera kubwerezedwa kwa mwamuna aliyense yemwe ali naye paubale wapamtima zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazo.