Ngakhale kuti kutchuka kudzatayika, anthu ambiri akupitirizabe kukhulupirira mphamvu zawo. Zikhulupiriro zamatsenga zimachokera ku chidziwitso cha makolo athu. Anthu amayesa kuzindikira zambiri, kuwayerekeza ndi zochitika zina ndikupeza mfundo zina. Chifukwa cha ichi, lero munthu aliyense ali ndi mwayi woyang'ana m'tsogolo.
Kupeza chidendene chidayendetsedwe kuyambira pachiyambi ndikofunikira kuchotsa kupezeka kwa mavuto alionse a thanzi, mwachitsanzo, bowa. Mosiyana ndi ziwalo zina za thupi, chitsitsinono sichimangoyamwa tizilombo ndi kukhumudwa. Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti kuyabwa kudera lino kumachitika mwangozi komanso kumatayika. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake malingaliro amatsenga nthawi zambiri amagulitsidwa pa zomwe zachitika.
Kodi chidendene chakumanzere chikuwombera chiyani?
Kalekale anthu amakhulupirira kuti kuyabwa mu gawo ili la thupi ndi chizindikiro choipa. Zochitika ndi zolinga zomwe munthu akugwira panopa sizidzatha. Kawirikawiri, ngati chitende chitachiritsidwa, ndiye kuti munthuyo akuwononga nthawi yamtengo wapatali pachabe.
Kutanthauzira kwina kwa zizindikiro, chifukwa chake chidendene chikugunda:
- Ngati chilakolako pamalo ano chidawonekera mwa munthu, zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa adzaima. Mwinamwake iye adzasintha mkazi wake wokondedwa kapena kungosiya msewu woyenera mu moyo. Pali chidziwitso chakuti ngati chidendene chikudula, ndiye kuti posachedwa mungathe kuyembekezera kupita patsogolo pa ntchito.
- Pakati pa anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti chidendene chakumanzere chikuwombera poyembekezera kusakhulupirika pa mbali ya wokondedwa.
- Chitsitsinacho chimagwedezeka kumanzere kumanzere kumbuyo kwa ulendo wautali, umene umabweretsa mavuto ambiri. Ndikofunika kuti zotsatira zomwe mukuzifuna zisapezeke. Kawirikawiri, ulendowu udzakhala wopanda pake.
- Ngati kuyabwa kukuwonekera m'nyengo yozizira, ndiye kuti posachedwapa ndizowonongeka kwambiri. Chilonda chitangotha m'chilimwe ndicho chizindikiro cha chilala ndi kutentha.
- Kwa mkazi wosakwatira, chizindikirocho chatsinthidwa m'njira yakeyake. Kudyetsa chidendene kumalonjeza banja lofulumira kapena mimba.
- Palibenso chidziwitso kuti ngati chidendene chakumanzere chikuwomba ndi chizindikiro choipa, vuto la chithunzi chomwe chidzachitikire wina kuchokera kwa achibale apatali. Posakhalitsa iwo adzapempha thandizo kuti athetse mavuto omwe achitika.
- Anthu akadali ndi kutanthauzira kwina kwa matsenga awa - posachedwa adzayenera kuphunzira nkhani zomwe zidzakhala zoipa. Pamapeto pake, izi zidzasintha kusintha. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutapita kumsonkhano, ndi bwino kubwezeretsa mwambo umenewu.
Ndikoyenera kufotokoza chizindikiro, chifukwa chimawombera zidendene ziwiri. Pachifukwa ichi, izo zikhoza kuonedwa ngati chisokonezo cha kusintha kwa nyengo. Kuyamwa kunayamba mvula, posachedwa imvula, ndipo ngati m'nyengo yozizira, padzakhala kutenthedwa. Ngati chidendene chikugunda, ndiye kuti mutha kuyembekezera uthenga wabwino ndi mwayi, komanso mu moyo wonse.
Pakadali pano, palibe umboni wotsimikiziridwa wa zamatsenga, koma zochita zawo ndi zopindulitsa zakhala zikukumana ndi ambiri.
Mwambo "Chiwongolero cha mwayi"
Kwa nthawi yaitali anthu amakhulupirira kuti pali mphamvu zambiri m'milingo ya munthu, motero pali miyambo yosiyana yopeza ndikukwaniritsa
"Ndi chidendene cha nsalu, kwa zamatsenga, kulipira!"
Ndikofunika kupanga kayendetsedwe ka 27, ndikuchita zonse mwachikondi, mopanda chiwawa . Kuchita mwambo umenewu n'kofunikira pamene pakufunika mphamvu zina. Mukamaliza chidendene, ndikofunikira kupanga mwambo wotero. Mapazi osasunthira akukwera pansi, mutembenuzire chidendene cha madigiri 360 masentimita ndi kunena kuti:
"Tembenuzira kumbuyo (kumanzere) chidendene, tsiku langa lonse liyenda bwino!"
Ngati matsenga amagwira ntchito, posachedwa mudzazindikira kuti mwayi uli pambali panu.