M'dziko lathu, Tsiku la Valentine linakondwerera posachedwa, koma lasanduka kale kwambiri. Ndipo sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa February 14 - holide ya mitima iwiri yachikondi.
Mbiri ya Tsiku la St. Valentine
Valentine, yemwe ankatcha dzina lake ku holide, ankakhala ku Roma (zaka za m'ma 3 AD AD) ndipo anali wansembe wamng'ono, wachifundo, wachifundo ndi wachifundo. Nthawi ya moyo wa Valentine inagwirizana ndi ulamuliro wa Kalaudiyo II, mfumu ya Roma, yomwe inalemekeza zida zankhondo za asilikaliwo ndipo sizinapatse Akristu mangawa ambiri. Pofuna kusunga mzimu wa asilikali, Kalaudiyo Wachiŵiri anapereka lamulo loletsa kukwatirana ndi asilikali. Mfumuyo inakhulupirira kuti msilikali amene amalowa m'banja amakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka kwambiri kwa banja ndipo samaganizira za ubwino wankhondo.
Osati mantha a mfumu, Valentin anachita mtendere ndi mkangano, anawapatsa maluwa ndipo anapitirizabe kubisa okondedwa okondedwa. Zinali zosatheka kuzibisa, tsiku ndi tsiku pamutu wa mitambo ya ansembe yomwe idasonkhana komanso kumapeto kwa 269 AD. Valentine anamangidwa. Posakhalitsa pambuyo pake, lamulo linaperekedwa pa kuphedwa kwa wansembe.
Masiku otsiriza a moyo wa wansembe Valentine ali ndi nthano. Malingana ndi mabuku ena, iye ankakondedwa ndi mwana wosaona wa ndende ya ndende. Wansembe, popereka lumbiro la kusaganizira, analibe ufulu womulanditsa. Komabe, pa February 13, usiku watangotsala pang'ono kuphedwa, ndinalemba kalata yogwira mtima kwa mtsikanayo. Malingana ndi Baibulo lina, Valentine, akugwera m'chikondi ndi kuyembekezera kuphedwa kwa msungwana wokongola, pogwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso cha zamankhwala, adachiritsa khungu.
Monga zinaliri zenizeni, sitidzadziwa, komabe ndizowona kuti wansembe wamng'ono uja anamwalira mu dzina la Chikondi. Choncho sizosadabwitsa kuti anthu sanaiwale za iye ndipo anasankha woyang'anira okondedwa. Valentine, monga Mkhristu wofera chikhulupiriro, yemwe adamva zowawa chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro, adavomerezedwa ndi Tchalitchi cha Katolika. Tsiku la Valentine ku Western Europe likukondwerera kuyambira zaka za 13, America - kuyambira 1777.
Kodi mungayankhe chiyani tsiku la Valentine?
Aliyense amadziwa kuti pa February 14, choyenera kwa mphatso iliyonse iyenera kukhala valentine ndi mawu okoma ndi kuvomereza wokondedwa. Kupatsana wina ndi mnzake valentine wakhala kale chikhalidwe chabwino. Amuna amapereka maluwa, maswiti ndi zokongoletsera. Akazi amapatsa amuna awo mafuta onunkhira, botolo la vinyo, makapu ndi chirichonse, zomwe ndi zokwanira zozizwitsa.
Mitima imatha kujambula, kusokedwa, kuchititsidwa khungu, kumangiriridwa komanso kuphikidwa ndi manja ake. Zida zogwira mtima zingagwiritsidwe ntchito mosiyana: mikanda, zipolopolo, maluwa ouma, nthenga, zidutswa za nsalu, ubweya.
Kodi mungakondwere bwanji tsiku la Valentine?
Nthawi zambiri okondedwa amafunsa momwe tingakondwerere Tsiku la Valentine, kotero kuti tchuthi lidzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali mu chikondi, chikondi chokhazikika ndi chikondi.
Lero liri ndi mphamvu zamatsenga. Okonda onse amadikirira pa February 14 ndipo, ngakhale kuti chisanu chija, anyamata akubweretsa maluwa ndi mphatso zawo atsikana okondedwa awo. Madzulo, okwatirana okondwa, kubisala poyang'ana maso, kukonzekera chakudya chamakono mu cafesi chosangalatsa. Mukhoza kusangalala Tsiku la okondedwa ndi kampani yolira. Ndiye, ndithudi, izo zidzakhala zosangalatsa, koma izo zidzatha
Ngati simukufuna kupita kulikonse kuzizira kapena kungofuna kukhala mwamtendere madzulo, mukhoza kukhala pakhomo. Konzani chakudya chamakono ndi vinyo wofiira, makandulo, kutsegulira kumwambako kuwala-mitima. Kuti apange tchuthi m'mlengalenga, azikongoletsa nyumbayo ndi zizindikiro za tsiku lino - mitima, angelo, nkhunda. Chokongoletsera chofunika ndi chizindikiro cha tsiku la okondedwa ndi maluwa. Mwamuna ayenera kupereka maluwa ake okondedwa. Inde, sikuli koyenera kuyankhula za izi, koma ngati munthu sakudziwa, mungathe kunena mwachidwi kuti chakudya chamakono chimamuyembekezera madzulo.