Oimira ambiri a hafu yokongola ya anthu akulota chovala choyera ndi ukwati. Ngati munthu pazifukwa zilizonse amatsutsana ndi ndondomeko, pali njira yogwirizana nayo - chiwembu chokwatirana. Ndi miyambo yosavuta aliyense adzatha kupirira. Ndikofunika kukhulupirira mu zotsatira zabwino komanso kuchita zamatsenga, mwinamwake simungayese ngakhale kuchita mwambo.
Chiwembu chokwatira posachedwa
Ngati palibe theka lachiwiri, ndiye kuti mwambo umenewu sukhalanso wokonda chikondi, koma udzathandizanso kukhazikitsa banja lolimba. Kuti mukhale ndi mwambo wodzisankhira muyenera kukhala ndi ndandanda ya mphete, mphete, pepala lodzimva ndi riboni yofiira. Gulani zinthu zonse zomwe mukufunikira tsiku loyamba la mwezi. Kumalo kumene mwambowu udzachitike, pangani malo osangalatsa, mwachitsanzo, yambani nyimbo zomwe mumakonda kapena makandulo onunkhira. Tengani pepala laling'ono ndikulemba makhalidwe abwino omwe wokondedwa ayenera kukhala nawo. Nkofunika kuti musagwiritse ntchito mawu ndi tinthu "osati", mwachitsanzo, osasuta, koma opanda zizoloŵezi zoipa, ndi zina zotero. Tengani mphete ndikuzimangiriza ndi riboni yofiira, ponena mawu awa:
"Hafu yanga, ndikudikirira!"
Kenaka pindani pepala ndi zilembo zolembedwa, mu chubu. Lembani mpukutuwo ndi mpiringidzo ndi mphete ndikuikamo m'thumba. Zimalimbikitsanso kuti muziyika chithunzi chanu ndi fano loyimira chikondi , mwachitsanzo, mitima, njiwa, etc. Bokosi liyenera kuikidwa m'chipinda chogona m'malo osakwanira anthu ena. Musamuwuze aliyense za mwambowu, ndipo patapita kanthawi theka lachiwiri lidzawonekera.
Kukonzekera kwa amayi kuti akwatire mwana wake wamkazi
Tengani uchi ndipo, mochulukirapo, mukhale bwino ndikumuwerengera chiwembu cha ukwati wabwino:
"Ndi njuchi zingati zomwe zinatuluka ndikusonkhanitsa uchi,
Chochuluka kwambiri ndi mtumiki wa Mulungu (wotchedwa mwana wamkazi) panyumba iyi kuti aziwuluka
Ndipo sindikudziwa kutopa.
Sambani, tsambulani.
Nyumbayi ili kuti ikhale nayo.
Momwe njuchi zimagwirira ntchito.
Kotero mwamuna wa mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina lake wamkazi) amagwira ntchito.
Kotero kuti nyumbayo inali yodzaza ndi ndalama. Kotero kuti mtumiki wa Mulungu (wotchedwa mwanayo) amamukonda kwambiri.
Monga uchi wokoma,
Kukhala ndi banja lokoma kunali
Kwa mtumiki wa Mulungu (wotchulidwa ndi mwana wake wamkazi).
Zokoma ndi zosalala.
Kumwa Medoc.
Ndipo wokondwa kukhala!
Mawu anga ndi amphamvu.
Mpeni kuti usadule.
Musadule nkhwangwa
Monga ndinanena, zikhale choncho. Amen. "
Pambuyo pake, pemphani mwanayo kuti amwe tiyi ndikuyika uchi mu kapu yake. Chinanso chokoma chimatha kupaka mkate.
Tiyenera kutchula za zotsatira za chiwembu chokwatirana. Ngati miyambo yamatsenga imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndipo zonse zimachitidwa kuchokera mu mtima, ndiye palibe chomwe chikhoza kuopedwa.