Makolo amasamalirira ana awo osati kuchokera kubadwa, koma ngakhale mpaka nthawi yomweyo. Pambuyo pa zonse, machimo athu ndi makhalidwe athu onse ndi katundu kapena madalitso potsatira tsogolo la ana.
M'banja lachikhristu lopembedza kwambiri, makolo asanabadwe ayenera kulandira madalitso a wansembe. Izi zisanachitike, munthu ayenera kuvomereza ndikulapa machimo ake (pambuyo pake, kusabereka kumawombedwa chifukwa cha chiwerewere cha abwenzi). Ndipo kuchita zonsezi ziyenera kukhala mwamunayo, osati mkazi yekhayo.
Ndi mapemphero ati omwe amawerengedwa asanabadwe?
Kupempherera kuti mwanayo avomereze sayenera kuwerengedwa kokha pakachisi asanavomereze kapena madalitso a wansembe, komanso kunyumba panthawi iliyonse, makamaka nthawi yomweyo asanakwane.
Mukhoza kuwona m'mapemphero anu asanawerenge mwanayo, mawu akuti "Kufuna kwanu kuchitidwe". Ichi ndi chiwonetsero chakuti munthu ali wofunitsitsa kumvera modzichepetsa chifuniro cha Mulungu m'moyo wake, ndipo mwanayo si kanthu koma chifuniro cha Mulungu.
Pogonana ndi mwanayo, mapemphero a St. Xenia wa St. Petersburg, Amayi Matrona, Theotokos, Alexander Svirsky ndi ena amawerengedwa. Mosakayikira, nthawi zambiri amai amawerengera mapemphero a mwanayo kwa Theotokos. Pemphero lotsatira liyenera kuwerengedwa pamaso pa chithunzi "Wachiritsa":
"Choyamba, O Wodalitsika ndi Wonse-Mkazi Wamphamvu, Mkazi wa Namwali, Wopembedza, Pemphero lopwetekedwa, ndi misonzi Muchotsedwa kwa ife, osayenerera atumiki anu, ku chifaniziro chanu chokhalira ndikuyimba kutumiza mwachikondi, Ndiyani yemwe ali wokha ndikumvetsera pemphero ndi pempho lathu lopempha. Malingana ndi pempholi, kuphedwa kwachitika, odwala amathandizidwa, odwala amadwala odwala, odwala ndi ofooka, ochiritsidwa, kuchoka ku ziwanda za satana, kukhumudwa ndi mavuto, akhate kuyeretsedwa ndi ana aang'ono, ngakhale kwa Lady Lady wa Amayi a Mulungu, ufulu wa ufulu ndi ndende za mitundu yonse Chikhumbo vrachueshi: Chofunika chonse ndi chotheka ndi kupembedzera kwanu kwa Mwana wanu, Khristu Mulungu wathu. O, Mayi Wonse Wopitirira, Mayi Woyera wa Mulungu! Musatipempherere ife, osayenera atumiki anu, akukulemekezani ndi kukupembedzani, ndi kupembedza mwachikondi chifaniziro chanu choyera, ndi chiyembekezo cha iwo omwe ali nacho sichidzabwerera, ndi chikhulupiriro chimene chiri ndi inu, Virgin wolemekezeka ndi Wosayika, akukulemekezani ndikukulemekezani ndi kulira kwamuyaya. Amen. "
Kodi ndi masiku ati omwe mungathe kutenga pakati?
Pemphero la Orthodox la chiberekero cha mwanayo lidzagwira ntchito, pokhapokha ngati mukutsatira malamulo ena achikristu okhudzana ndi pakati. Lamulo lofunikira kwambiri ndi tsiku la kulera. Mu kalendala ya tchalitchi pali masiku ambiri pamene kugonana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi kumatengedwa kuti ndi tchimo:
- pa kusala;
- madzulo a maholide akulu;
- Madzulo a tsiku la kusala kudya - Lachitatu ndi Lachisanu (tsiku loyamba likutanthauza kuti simungagonepo kuyambira 4 koloko Lachiwiri ndi Lachinayi, motsatira);
- Lamlungu;
- pa tsiku la ukwati.
Mu Chikhristu (mosiyana ndi Chisilamu) sangathe kupanga chikondi pa tsiku la ukwati, popeza kuunikira kwaukwati ndi wansembe kumaonedwa kuti ndi chinsinsi chachikulu chomwe sichingaipitsidwe.
Matrona Woyera
Holy Matrona pa moyo wake anathandiza amayi ambiri kuchotsa vuto la kusabereka, anakhala mkazi weniweni wa akazi. Atamwalira, amayi anayamba kumufunsa za kubereka mwana m'mapemphero a Matronushka.
"O mai odalitsidwa Matrono, moyo kumwamba pamaso pa mpando wachifumu wa Mulungu ukudza, ndi thupi pa mpumulo wa pansi, ndipo uyu ndi
Lero, ndi diso lanu lachisomo kwa ife, ochimwa, m'masautso, matenda ndi mayesero a ziwanda, tili ndi masiku athu okhumudwa, kutitonthoza ife, osachiritsika, kuchiza matenda athu, kuchokera kwa Mulungu machimo athu amatumizidwa kwa ife, kutipulumutsa ife kuchisoni ndi zochitika zambiri ndikupemphera kwa Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu, mutikhululukire ife machimo athu onse, zochimwa zathu ndi machimo athu, kuyambira pa ubwana wathu mpaka lero lino ndi nthawi ndi uchimo, ndipo kupyolera mu mapemphero anu, mutalandira chisomo ndi chifundo chachikulu, timalemekeza mu utatu wa Mulungu mmodzi - Atate ndi Mwana, ndi Mzimu Woyera, ndi tsopano ndi kwanthawizonse ndi zaka mazana ambiri. Amen. "