Mphatso zina kuchokera kwa anthu akhala zikukangana nthawi zambiri. Ena amanena kuti ulonda, mtanda, mipeni kapena galasi sizingaperekedwe, ndipo ena amatcha zikhulupiriro zoterozo ngati zochitika zakale. Chirichonse chimadalira pa maphunziro a munthu, chipembedzo chimene amati (mwina iye sakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu), msinkhu wake ndi mfundo zake. Makamaka izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito poponya makola, omwe anthu ambiri sakhala okongoletsera. Tchalitchi chovomerezeka chimakhalanso ndi malingaliro awo pazinthu zamatsenga. Kodi n'zotheka kupereka mtanda kwa mwamuna, mtsikana, wokondedwa, bwenzi la tsiku la kubadwa kapena bwino kuti asamapereke mphatso? Tiyeni tiyesere kumvetsa vuto lovuta pang'ono.
Bwanji osapereka mtanda?
Kodi chizindikirocho chinachokera kuti, sungapereke mtanda? Anthu amanena kuti ngati mupereka mphatso yotere, mumapereka chidziwitso chanu kwa munthu wina. Ndimatenga mtanda wanga ndikuugula ndekha. Mwinamwake, chotero, kukwera pa msewu wina wotayika mtanda pamaso nawonso analetsedwa. Munthu amene anataya chinthu choterocho, pamodzi ndi iye, anataya chitetezo chake kuti asawonongeke. Ena amatsutsa kuti mphatso yoteroyo imatha kufulumira imfa ya munthu amene adalandira.
Kulosera koopsya koteroko kumakana kwathunthu ndi tchalitchi chovomerezeka. Amati mphatso zimenezi ziyenera kuchitidwa. Kodi n'zotheka kupatsa wokondedwa mtanda? Inde, mungathe! Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti mtanda sungadziwike ngati chokongoletsera chophweka. Ndi nthawi yoyamba yomwe imaperekedwa pa ubatizo. Poyamba, mtanda unali wobvala pansi pa zovala ndipo sanawonetsere. Ankadzichepetsa, ndi nkhuni zosavuta, zitsulo kapena siliva, ndipo sanali wokongoletsedwa ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali. Imakhala ngati kachisi, chizindikiro cha chikhulupiriro chachikhristu. Mpingo umanena kuti aliyense ali ndi mtanda wake komanso tsogolo lake. Palibe mphatso zomwe zingakhudze izi. Ndibwino kuti mupite ku tchalitchi mwathu ndikuonetsetsa kuti mukuchita mwambo - kuti mupatulire mphatso yanu kwa dzina la mwamuna wanu.
Mtanda, umene munthuyo adayika pa ubatizo, amayesa kusunga moyo, wosasintha, kuchotsa kwa kanthawi kochepa chabe. Nthawi zina mabwenzi anasintha mitanda yawo ya kubadwa, kutembenukira ku "mapasa auzimu". Ndicho chifukwa chake kupatsa chinthu china chachipembedzo popanda chifukwa, chinali chopanda pake. Chinthu chopatulikachi chiyenera kuperekedwa ngati mphatso yokhayokha ndi malingaliro oyera, ndiye munthu adzalandira naye madalitso ndi chitetezo. Sizingatheke kuti apereke mtanda, koma ndifunikanso kwa anthu omwe asankhidwa kukhala mulungu ndi bambo. Ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali imeneyi, mumadalitsa mwanayo. Kokha kokha kuyeretsa mitanda imeneyo yomwe inu simuigula mu tchalitchi.