Kuchita nawo agogo ndi abambo pakuleredwa kwa mwana, monga lamulo, kumatsimikiziridwa ndi zifukwa zingapo, zomwe titha kusiyanitsa:
- ntchito ya agogo aakazi (tidzakambirana za iwo, chifukwa agogo aakazi omwe nthawi zambiri akulera) - ngati agogo aang'ono ali olimba, osakayikira kusiya ntchito, kulumikizana ndi zidzukulu zake, monga lamulo, kumakhala kuyenda ndi kuika mapeto a sabata. Amayi a agogo aakazi amapereka ana ambiri nthawi yochuluka;
- malo okhala - gawo lalikulu lomwe limasewera ndi kumene agogo aakazi amakhala - m'nyumba imodzi ndi banja laling'ono kapena mumzinda wina. Mtunda wamtunda ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu ya zokopa kwa zidzukulu;
- Machitidwe a mibadwo - mwatsoka, nthawi zina maubwenzi ndi makolo samangowonjezera, chifukwa iwo amadzipatula okha kapena amachotsedwa ku miyoyo ya ana awo ndipo, motero, ana awo;
- zokonda za agogo aakazi. Mwachitsanzo, m'dziko lathu mwachizoloŵezi agogo aakazi amagwira nawo mbali kwambiri pa maphunziro a achinyamata - adathandizira ndalama, amachokera kumapeto kwa sabata ndi maholide ndi zina zotero. Ndipo, mwachitsanzo, ku Ulaya sivomerezedwa, ndipo akazi ena posachedwapa adasintha njirayi ku zikhalidwe zathu. Agogo aakaziwa saona kuti ndi koyenera kupereka moyo wawo komanso ntchito zawo zidzukulu zawo.
Zina mwazifukwazi zimakhala ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana komanso zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa banja lililonse. Ngati agogo asatenge nawo mbali mu maphunziro a zidzukulu, chirichonse chiri chosavuta apa. Ili ndi nkhani yachinsinsi kwa aliyense ndipo ana alibe ufulu woumirira, osadandaula. Tiye tikulankhulane mwatsatanetsatane za zochitikazo pamene agogo a amayi ndi omwe amatsogoleredwa kwambiri.
Mapindu ndi madandaulo a maphunziro a "agogo"
Monga momwe ziliri, mu maphunziro a ana agogo aakazi ali ndi ubwino ndi chiopsezo chawo. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi mndandanda wa mbali zosatsutsika :
- mwanayo amasamalidwa nthawi zonse, agogo aakazi amasamala kuti amuchotse kunja kwa munda, sukulu, kumakhala maphunziro, chakudya ndi zina zotero. Pachifukwa ichi, makolo angathe kugwira bwino ntchito komanso osadandaula. Kuonjezera apo, palibe chifukwa cholemba ngongole ndikumulipira ndalama, choncho sizinapangidwe pa bajeti ya banja. Koma izi ndizo nthawi zowathandiza;
- malinga ndi akatswiri ena azachipatala, agogo aakazi sakhala ndi chidziwitso chosiyana, mosiyana ndi makolo omwe amawayerekezera ana awo ndi ena ndi kuwaikapo maudindo akulu;
- agogo aakazi akhoza kudziika okha m'malo mwa mwana ndi "kulankhula" naye m'chinenero chimodzi, chifukwa amatha kuvomereza ngati alibe popanda kudzidodometsa okha ndi mavuto awo;
- Ana oleredwa ndi agogo amasiyana ndi anzawo omwe amadzilemekeza kwambiri, omwe amawathandiza m'moyo;
- mu kukula kwa luntha la zidzukulu za "Agogo aakazi" nthawi zambiri amakhala patsogolo pa anzawo.
Koma sikuti zonse zili zosavuta, palinso nthawi zolakwika :
- malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, ana omwe amakulira ndi agogo aakazi ali odzikonda ndipo nthawi zina sakhala olephera;
- agogo aamuna - oimira mbadwo wosiyana kwambiri, kotero ngati amapanga maphunziro a zidzukulu akuluakulu, kuthekera kosazindikiranso ndipo ngakhale mikangano ndi yabwino;
- Choopsa chachikulu chimene chimakhala podikira banja limene zidzukulu zimakulira ndi agogo aakazi ndi maganizo otsutsana pa kulera. Ngati mwanayo amachotsedwa nthawi zonse, amavomereza kusagwirizana ndi wina ndi mzake, pali mwayi waukulu kuti mwanayo adzakule ndikutsekemera.
Inde, pa funso la kutenga nawo mbali kwa agogo aakazi pakuleredwa kwa mwana, pali nthawi zina zambiri zomwe, makamaka zimadalira banja komanso umunthu wawo. Choncho, zosankha zonse zokhudzana ndi chiwerengero ndi mlingo wa zokambiranazi ziyenera kuthandizidwa payekha.