Imfa ya wokondedwa ndi mphindi yovuta kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense. Nthawi zina ifeyo timafunikira kuthandizidwa komanso kutonthozedwa, ndipo ndithudi tiyenera kumadzigwira yekha ndikuthandiza amene manja ake sakudalira, womwalirayo. Malingana ngati tikukhala moyo wathu, zotsatira zathu zowonongeka zimayikidwa ndi ntchito zabwino, malingaliro ndi mapemphero, tikafa, chiyembekezo chonse cha chipulumutso chathu chimakhala pamapewa a okondedwa athu.
Podziwa kuti tifunikira kuthandiza othawa kuti akhululukidwe machimo ake, timakonza maliro a maliro, kulamula manda a mtengo wapatali, phwando la maliro apamwamba, kulira ndikulira maliro - koma zonsezi, timachita kuti tizitonthozedwa. Kuti atithandize mu zenizeni, tikhoza kukumbukira pemphero, chifundo ndi ntchito zabwino zambiri zomwe zachitidwa m'malo mwa womwalirayo.
Pemphero pa chakudya cha chikumbukiro
Nkhwangwa zakonzedwa ndi akhristu nthawi zakale, kulemekeza kukumbukira kwa wakufayo ndikupempha Ambuye kuti akhululukidwe machimo ake. Kuuka kumakonzedwa tsiku lachitatu pambuyo pa imfa (maliro), tsiku la 9 ndi tsiku la 40. Iwo amachitikizidwanso mu masiku ena, osaiwalika masiku a wakufa - tsiku lakubadwa, tsiku la mngelo, tsiku lachikumbutso cha imfa. Inde, chinthu chamtengo wapatali pa chakudya choterocho sichiyenera kukhala gome komanso mitsinje ya mowa, koma mapemphelo a chikumbutso kwa womwalirayo.
Panthawi ina aliyense akhoza kubwera yemwe amadziwa yemwe wamwalirayo. Palinso mwambo wakale woitana ndi kuyika tebulo kwa osowa oyamba. Ndiye kupemphera kwa Orthodox ndi pemphero la chikumbutso kunasandulika chikondi, chifukwa anthu osawuka ndi ofooka anapatsidwa chakudya, zinthu, chirichonse chimene angafune. Zoonadi, zonsezi ziyenera kuchitidwa m'malo mwa yemwe akukumbukira ndipo nthawi zonse akupereka mphatso zachifundo, akuti "Tengani mphatso izi kuchokera kwa Ambuye ...".
Musanayambe kudya, muwerenge Kafism 17 kuchokera ku Psalter. Iyenera kuchitidwa ndi munthu wapafupi. Kenako, asanadze chakudya, "Atate Wathu" amawerengedwa, ndipo pamapeto pake, pemphero loyamika ndi "Zikomo, Khristu Mulungu wathu" ndi "Woyenera kudya."
Pakati pa mbale iliyonse, m'malo moti "dziko lapansi likhale pansi," muyenera kuwerenga pemphero lachikumbutso lalifupi, limene lingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa tsiku lachikumbutso cha imfa, komanso tsiku lililonse pamene tikufuna kupempherera wakufayo - "Mulungu apume, Ambuye, moyo wa kapolo wanu watsopano ( dzina), ndipo mum'khululukire zolakwa zonse zaulere ndi zosafuna ndikumupatsa Ufumu wa Kumwamba. "
Masiku 40 okumbukira
Chokhumba kwambiri ndikuwerenga mapemphero a chikumbutso kwa masiku 40. Ambuye ali wachifundo makamaka kwa miyoyo imeneyo, chifukwa kuti pali wina amene ayenera kumupempherera, zikutanthawuza kuti moyo wawo sunali wopanda pake, ndipo iwo anatha kudzutsa ndi kusiya chikondi mumtima mwawo, mu mtima umodzi.
Ngati tipempherera ochimwa, Mulungu adzawakhululukira machimo awo ndikuwamasula kuvutika. Ngati tiwerenga mapemphero a chikumbutso kwa olungama, adzathokoza Mulungu chifukwa cha chitetezero cha machimo athu ndi chiyamiko.
Mu pemphero lapanyumba, mukhoza kukumbukira omwe simungathe kupemphera mu mpingo - awa ndi odzipha okha ndi anthu omwe sakhulupirira moyo ndi osabatizidwa. Pemphero lapanyumba limatchedwa selo (likuchitidwa molingana ndi malamulo), ndipo akuluakulu a Optina amaloledwa kupemphera motere pofuna kudzipha ndi osakhulupirira.
Mapemphero a Chikumbutso kumanda
Mukafika kumanda, muyenera kuwerenga pemphero la chikumbutso kwa masiku 9. Icho chimatchedwa lithiamu, chomwe mwachidziwitso chimatanthauza pemphero lowonjezeka. Muyenera kuyatsa kandulo, pempherani, mungamuitane wansembe ku malo apemphero, muyenera kuyeretsa pamanda, mutseke ndikumbukira wakufa.
Orthodoxy savomereza miyambo ya kudya, kumwa, kusiya kapu ya vodka ndi chidutswa cha mkate pamanda. Zikondwerero zonse zachikunja, siziyenera kutengedwa. Komanso, musaike chipangizo patebulo pamaliro a munthu wakufayo, musamatsanulire, ngakhale panthawi ya moyo wake adayamba kumwa mowa.
